He doesn't talk to me, but he stares at me. What can this mean?

Okay. I met this guy in November. We flirted a little but nothing came of it. He came up on suggested friends on Facebook so I added him and he never did anything with it so I canceled it.

Now I see him every other week, and he doesn't talk to me, but he stares at me. A lot. But he doesn't smile or anything.

Like, I smiled at him the other day, and he still just stared.

I'm also pretty sure he was trying to show off last time I saw him.

So, tell me what you think.

I'm so frustrated by this. It's not that I like him just yet, but I'm really interested in him.


Most Helpful Guy

  • Maybe he is staring at you because he recognizes your face, but can't remember where he knows you from and so he is trying to figure that out in his head. It is weird that when you smile at him he doesn't smile back however. Maybe try to add him again, and send a message with it saying that you met him last November and he seemed cool so you wanted to keep in touch.

    • That's what I did last time when he did nothing with it.

    • Well maybe this dude isn't worth your time if he is going to act like that then.

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What Guys Said 2

  • Dude likes you... A LOT! either that or he is really lame. you should go up to him and talk to him... I've been in that dude's shoes. you must be a really cool girl!

    • You think so? even with the whole Facebook thing? if he liked me that much why wouldn't he accept it?

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    • Maybe try adding him again? or you could forget about the past and go up to him as if its your first time talking to him.

    • ahh oh man this is EXACTLY my question that I posted. @criazazy -can you please how/why you know he "likes you...A LOT!"...?

  • Sometimes girls are just so pretty we find it impossible to look away :)

    • But why wouldn't he talk? or smile?

      i even smiled at him and he still just stared at me

What Girls Said 1

  • Well, what do you want it to mean? Do you like him? Because I don't think he likes you, at least not in a more than friends way.
    He's just being odd. A lot of people are odd. Maybe you'll be friends with the future but I don't know. It seems to me he's just another guy in the crowd that caught your eye. Like finding a shiny penny. It's cool at first, but then just useless because it's not worth anything. :D