How to tell if he recently had sex or masturbated?

is there a way to tell if a man recently had sex or masturbated? besides smelling him? recently my boyfriend came over and i initiated sex with him, he couldnt get all the way hard nor ejaculate which is very uncommon for him. dont know if he maybe masturbated or had sex
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  • There is no way to tell, because either thing could make it so that He couldn't cum. The question here is he being honest with you? Have you done anything to make him believe that you would disapprove of him masturbating? Even if He didn't masturbate or cheat on you, it is possible that His body just doesn't want to cum. The Human body has many variables in it.

    • i dont care if he masturbates, or watches porn or any of that.. but it was just very uncommon because he's very sexual and didn't seem like he was in the mood even but i asked him if he didn't want to have sex tonight (because he wasn't all the way hard and he had to make it) but he said no its ok. we hadn't had sex for 2 days prior

  • He can't get into the mood and accuse him of cheating nice one. He might of jacked off or he might of cheated but alterntively he might just not be in the mood or is stressed and tired like another questioned got answered with.

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  • Ask him. There are more than just them reasons which can cause him to not get fully hard or ejaculate. Only way to know for certain is to ask.

  • ... Dunno. I'm not an expect but don't guys get tired after they masturbate?

  • you can't tell it

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  • I think it's another problem entirely

  • I have no words...

    • dont worry... by the time you think up a reply she will have reposted the same question again with just a couple of words changed lol
      www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2229710-how-to-tell-if-he-recently-had-sex-or-masturbated

    • @wankiam hahahaha damn, that's a level 5 clinger right there

    • you guys are weird

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  • There are other reasons why a guy might have a problem with erections and orgasm, such as stress, medications, alcohol, diabetes, or too many orgasms recently.

  • Why not ask him what the problem was?

  • I think there's larger issues at play here.

  • why you put this up again?

  • why didn't you just ask him?

    • maybe he was just tired or stressed or something but sad state of affairs if you can't talk to the person who puts his dick in you

  • Smell is the only way, of maybe he is suffering from erectile dysfunction.

    • no. no medical problems. he didn't smell like a female but did taste like semen. he said he was in the mood when i asked if he wasn't. he has a hostory of lying to me and being shady but as far as i know never cheated

    • Then he probably pleasures himself.

    • ok. if he did, would he taste so much of semen as he did? masturbated vs if he used a condom

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  • Not having a boner could also be because of stress or exhaustion.

  • Well there you have it. Should'a come over earlier. LOL

  • Only if he smells really used or like a female and he's tired

  • yeah it could be that he has masturbated. thats not a problem though in my opinion.

  • probably masturbated but ask him

  • you can ask. or you can do what my

  • I would not go assuming he did either. Sometimes those things just happen, and more often then you think.

  • you can ask. or you can do what my wife does and get mad at him and accuse him of cheating irrespective if he actually did have sex or if he only masturbated. because apparently masturbating is also cheating?

    • I asked him if he wasn't in the mood and he said he is. But he couldn't get hard. He said he didn't masturbate. but he tastes like semen. My question is if you masturbated why would he have tasted like semen so bad. I'm wondering if it was a condom he had used to make him taste so much of semen