What is it about "cute" "innocent" "wholesome" type girls that some guys like? (Page 2)
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They're not intimidating. They're accessible without having to jump through a ton of hoops, and cater to all the demands that an exceptionally attractive and glamorous woman expects a man to jump through.
The Dating game is an economy, where time, attention and real money are all currencies.
Cute and Innocent girls generally don't require the high level of investment that a Hot / Exotic girl requires.
Agreed
Apparently guys don't like that
They want the "hot" "sexy" party girl,but settle for that,which to guys,"cute" "innocent" and "wholesome" translates into "ugly","prudish" and "boring"
It isn't about settling!! some of us are drawn to this type of girl.... usually I would find such a shy girl as a mariage material . Again.... may be because I am a calm guy myself. I don't like vain and high maintenance girls... .
Yes,it is about settling:-)
Guys will take a b*tchy,rude,dumb ungrateful girl who is sexy,hot & gorgeous over an "average" or cute or innocent girls
Maybe it's because those sexy/ rude girls are better at playing games. And even though guys claim not to like it, it's what hooks them.
I don't believe when girls or guys say looks don't matter,they do,guys just base the relationship off of looks
Sorry, but what you are saying is completely untrue. I couldn't find the girl you described too much more repulsive. Also, while looks do matter because they can make me drawn to the person at first glance, they are by -far- not what I base the relationship off of. I fell for one of my friends recently entirely because of personality, it had nothing to do with looks at all. It's amazing how knowing a person and who they are can make so much more of a difference than liking their looks.
Then good for you,you obviously do not represent every male,nor did I represent every male
"Guys will take...", "guys just base...", "Apparently guys don't like...", you were labeling guys, all guys, based off your personal experiences. You made no notion towards it only being "some guys". You said throughout your text, again and again, just guys. So when I go to defend something that was clearly targeted at my gender, in a civil way might I add, you get snippy? How that makes any sense I have no idea.
I didn't get "snippy"
"Then good for you" sounds pretty snippy to me, perhaps it's just the way I'm taking it. But it seems like that remark is far more used sarcastically, or with an attitude, than it is actually genuinely. Sorry if you actually meant it, but you can't really blame me for thinking like that when that phrase is so commonly used in a nasty way.
I meant what I said like good for you,but not every guy is like you.I wasn't being sarcastic,I hope you didn't take it that way
Okay, glad that is cleared up then =). Yah I did assume it was sarcastic. Unfortunately my internet sarcasm detector is broken =(, gotta get it fixed.
Dragonblood you have to realize that you are not the typical guy. there are not many guys like you so what you like, does not hold true for what most guys like and end up with.
I'm gonna have to agree with her on this cause I literally got told last night that I should be more slutty and sexy and not so shy and innocent... I told him I'm not going to change who I am for the type of guys I don't want. He even told me that he would like me more if I was the slutty chick instead of cute innocent one... I wanted to slap him right then and there just for saying that. Seriously though, wtf guys?! Grow up!
Guys who like the cute, innocent, wholesome type. Could be a lot of reasons, kind of girl you marry...
Wow. Guys, I don't think we're talking about a submissive, dependent little yes-woman here. It could mean she's just NOT a bitch and has some principles, is that really such a turn-off?
I smell a question-asker bias.
They make good caring girlfriends, they don't play games or make you jealous on purpose. Plus they have this innocence that just needs to be violated lol.
usually it means a girl who hasn't had a lot of sexual partners if any and has a good personality. Although the media say guys do, guys don't generally fall for the whores and the b*tches
Never fell for a whore or bitch in my entire life.
Guys are the opposite of that. Ik that is what I fall for and I'm a pretty serious and determined person. My friends call me a hard ass because I have lifted wieghts 2 times in one day. SO I don't know if that answers your question but yea haha
Yeah morning and evening. a lot of guys do that including myself. not uncommon or really hard assed besides what you get from squats
Men are programmed to be attracted to wholesome women because they will more carefully raise his offspring. This is a fact of evolutionary psychology.
guys want someone to trust. a wholesome girl most likely won't be a lieing, cheating how. evolution. but also-- they arnt exactly the girls that get f***ed and pregnant at a young age.
Maybe because their looks suggest that if a guy has sex with her, his d*** won't fall off.
This is terrible guys just settle with the cute innocent types because there not sexy and don't require a lot of investment...what in the world.
A cute shy girl could be sexy ... sexy doesn't mean wearing less clothes..... for me I like it when a girl blushes... for me that is sexy... it doesn't mean she should be submissive or a push over ... she should also undestand and enjoy her sexuality.....
So... she's what guys settle for when they can't have the hot, sexy girl they want? No one genuinely wants them?
Apparently judging by the answers
This is disappointing.
Not exactly, not all guys want or think the so called "Hot and sexy" girl is actually hot to them. Best put in an exmaple, a friend of mine thinks a girl is gorgeous, she's cute in my opinion. Girl I think is hot, he finds average. Its personal opinion, its not like were saying "Your the best I can get so I'll take it"
Yea that is what you're saying
Some guys .. want such an innocent shy girl.... I am a calm guy myslf and I would go along well with such character. I totally disagree with this thing about guys like bitches etc...... I have been never drawn to an Alpha female.... may be from far away if she is sexy.and just for her looks .... but a cute not as sexy shy girl would win my heart over the alpha female.
Wow are you serious. I can have any girl because well women love me and I want a cute nice innocent women. that's the type of women ill have kids with.
Not true nobody want a girl that's been piped by a lot of men. those girls are good for the mean time while the good girls learn social skill and come out of there shell so we can met them eventually.
Its just that they feel less intimidated cute girls are more approachable and usually seem a lot more accepting of others... its a cop out
I liked that type of girl because I thought she was more sincere and loving.
But I saw from experience that people change, including "cute" and "innocent" girls...
I like all of them now :)
I feel like guys don't want us because we're too much work. Or the bad guys want us so they can corrupt us
Those kind of girls are keepers...wife material. When a guy that's smart enough to know better is ready to settle down, that type of girl is what he'll look for.
A good guy is usually attracted to this type of girl. I for one like "Good girls" more so than going after the bar flies.
She hasn't had a lot of sexual partners (typically).
Because these are the girls who don't start drama. Were never spoiled. And was bullied 'n' abused as a child. And deserves the best for all she's been through.
When a man wants to settle down he usually realizes sluts are bad marriage material. Like they say you can't turn a ho into a housewife. Shit just don't turn out right.