I've found that when guys hit on me, and of course I turn them down because I'm married, they seem to become even more determined to try to seduce me. The more firmly I tell them no, the more they pursue me! They just won't take no for an answer until I physically walk away from them. That doesn't stop some of them, I've had a few try to continue flirting with me through social media! Is it because I'm off limits and tell them no? Do guys really get more turned on when a woman is more of a challenge?
Most Helpful Guy
It's not the hard to get part... it's the rarity part... when you play "hard to get" as in, it will take you effort to get me... then the will think that you are HARD TO OBTAIN like a diamond... it's basically a bit of a psychological trick... there's a diamond... and there's a rabbit... they are both hard to get... Do you follow?
ANYWAYS... what if you are the rabbit running around... and then you get caught and the wolf finds out you aren't a diamond... does that make for a happy wolf?
AND if you are indeed a diamond then why must you run? is shining not simply enough to attract attention?
What im saying is this... if you have a clear and bright and honest open confident personality.. if you are without shame and guilt and love youself... and are a possitive person... you will be hard to get like a diamond and don't need to run like the rabbit...
AND NO!!! i hate when women play hard to get... cuz sure it might be fun for one party, even both sometimes... but sometimes you don't have time, you got a life... and you just want a person who can be upfront and honest.1
Most Helpful Girl
from what i've heard,... they won't beg her to give them attention1