Do men discuss sex in detail with other men? Like women sometimes do?


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  • No. It's usually, "Did you guys fuck?" "Yeah, we did." "Nice. Do you have any fruit rollups?"

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  • The real short answer to this is no. For the most part and I'm thinking 95% of guys, we don't kiss and tell. Personally I consider it rather immature and even disrespectful to my girl. Most boys get over it not long after middle school or High School. But hey if you gals want to talk about our junk and whether it did it for you or didn't do it for you we don't really give a shit either. If for some reason that makes sex more exciting for chicks, then more power to you. Just make sure if you got any good moves you teach each other in great detail. That's definitely information that we would like you to share with each other and I think I can speak for most of the guys here that we would appreciate that very much. :-)

    Just remember that we're not going to hang out and talk about all the latest crazy moves you've recently learned last time we got our freak on. If a dude asks me if I'm banging that hot chick the most he'll hear for me is, yep. I'm not a liar and quite frankly that's all he needs to know. And if he's a normal guy that's all he really wants to know. We men just don't get our jollies off on the details like women do. And please understand that is not a judgment against modern women. It's 2017 and from my point of view that double standard is going away and y'all can get your freak on without feeling judged and that is just fine by me.

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  • No. Lol. How do women talk about sex?

    When I talk about sex with my guy friends, it's like:

    Me: Remember I told you about that girl I met at Wal-Mart? You know, the hot one that looks like Beyoncé?

    Guy Friend: Yeah!

    Me: I fucked her last night!

    Guy Friend: Nice!

    That's pretty much it. Lol. Sometimes we will describe what the girl looks like... but we won't go into sex acts or what we did sexually to them.

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  • I would, but they get all creeped out by it. I mean, we talk about what we're into and hitting the pussy but getting detailed? Most guys I know aren't into even though I'm fine with it.

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    • I love talking about sex but I also respect my partner's right to privacy about certain things

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    • You learn a lot from the stories! I recently learned that women my age hit up guys for purely sex way more often than I would have ever thought. This was from a guy that has been divorced for a few. years. Changed my perspective a bit.

    • Well, I sure wish they would hit me up cuz older is what I love!

  • So far? With my friends? I don't think I've ever heard them mention it. They definitely don't go into detail... a lot of them don't kiss and tell. Really good idea not to.

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  • Only high school kids and homosexuals. The remainder quickly come to the realization that choices must be made between a) doing little and talking a great deal or b) the reverse. Most guys are only stupid until around age 62 so they often learn by then

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  • We might discuss sex but I have almost never discussed specifics of being with a partner with another guy. First off that is a topic that I would NOT discuss with most guys. At best it would have to be a real close friend.

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  • Generally, no.

    Women like to go into the who, what, when, where, and why.

    Men, on the other hand, typically stick to the who. Sometimes the where, and sometimes the when. Questions and answers are usually five words or less a piece.

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  • Not really. Sometimes I might mention that "she did X" or "she let me do Y", but not going into all the fine details. I think that would be awkward. Even though I have my kinks and perversions, I still think sex is intimate.

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  • Not in detail... just saying you did, is good enough information.

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  • Here and there something comes up but not really in full detail or Anything.
    Most times my friends will kind of probe if we've had sex but that's more or less it.
    My female friends that I'm close to DO tend to go into details if they can be I will zone out for one reason or another.

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  • No! Sometimes we just mention that we did it, but not get into detail. When any of my friends decide to share some details, which is very rare, usually nobody asks questions, just let him say what he wants to share.

    Even though there is not an agreement, men tend to avoid some topics related to sex, politics, and religion.

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  • No. Even saying I fucked her, is enough to be to much information.
    Woman talk about penis size & the detail of how they react, to scrutinise information, in a humilating way, rather then expressing it as a sexual interest apart from bragging about some guy. Or least that's the shit I've seen on TV because I couldn't be fucked chatting to woman gossiping, which is what it is.
    Men don't cackle or gossip like woman.

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  • No. We are interested in Doing things, not in talking about them.

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  • No in the majority of men , maybe a very brief mention , no real details. We take the piss out of each other & throw in a few " your mum " jokes more than anything !!

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  • Not really because my girlfriend I have a lot mutual friends. I talk about sex a lot on here though baha

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  • Humm no.

    We talk about sex a lot and about women a lot (who is hotter, who have the biggest butt, about their breasts, etc). We discuss about all girls we know, some crush we have too, but not in a romantic way (I do not know if it's our way or if we do not like to expose feelings).

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  • No, we usually give broad strokes. It's pretty rare to get into the nitty gritty. And really unattractive to hear girls discussing it in public.

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  • Usually, no. Guys talk to each other about sports, cars, etc, but when the subject of sex comes up, there are SOME guys who want to get into the grossest detail, and want to know about EVERYTHING.

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  • Probably depends on the company you keep - Sure maybe a bit of innuendo, some may resort to macho bragging but in my experience very little about sexual relationships especially longer term ones

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  • yes but very superficially. Not on an emotional basis.

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What Girls Said 15

  • My experience, men are often shocked by what women share with other women so I have assumed from their reaction that they do not share this stuff.

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  • Given how nudes of wives and girlfriends get shared around, I would be incredibly surprised if they didn’t.

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  • It's normally things that are different or if it's a ons it's the things that were really weird. With my bestie from home tho it's very much discussed lol

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  • I don't talk in too much detail with my friends. I tell them that it's great and better than ever before but I don't tell them what we get up to.

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  • I have never talked about it with my girl friends.

    I have overheard guys talk about it, usually just immature ones I think do that.

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  • I thought men did detail sex with other men. Why is that'

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  • I thought it's men who usually do this... which I find it very disrespectful.

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    • It's the opposite and always has been , and we guys find it very disrespectful also.

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    • Thats right !!

    • @Djaaay well, there will be some women who talks about sex and some men too. End of discussion. :P

  • LOL people are people are people

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  • I never kiss and tell

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  • Yes they do

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  • Yes... sometimes they do.

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  • some do

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  • My friends and I definitely don't do that.

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  • Most definitely

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  • My guy friends would talk about it even with me

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    • 1st, you don't have a 'guy friend'. if you have guys that are acting friendly, it is because they want to keep you on the radar for potential hook-up if you both end up single.
      2nd, they talk to you about sex because it is a huge turn on when women talk about sex. They can then go home and jack off thinking about what you said.

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    • Oh okay, I read wrong. They don't talk about it with you, they talk about it around you. Gotcha.

    • Think you mean 'only with you'. We dont talk about sex specifics with other guys, but we sure as hell do if we think we can get a girl in a sexual frame of mind! Before you arrived, they were talking about how far inland you should take off in a balloon chair.

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