And this is where u get yourself wrong. A descent guy never calls her girl sexy. He calls her beautiful, which is what he sees in his girl. The day he move towards sexual attraction, the feeling of true love is over. Love should not be involved with sex. Both are equally important but love is always the purest and strongest feeling whereas sex is unstoppable, unsatisfiable, never ending desire and is the weakest one for it makes you weak. You get in knees when it comes to sex. You get weak. But love always makes you stronger. You get in your feet and fight. Whereas sex makes you to struggle. Huge difference between fight and struggle. Hope u got it.
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What are you even talking about lol, sex is just a normal thing people need to stay happy long-term, and being called sexy is something many people like. So does the OP. Your supreme gentleman nonsense doesn't help a normal human being man haha
Lol. What do u expect. One cannot go on suggesting sex on public. I prefer being gentle man rather being known as pervert.
Have you talked to him about this? I'm pretty sure it's just a communication thing. Just tell him, that beautiful/pretty is great and you love it, but you'd also like to be called sexy/hot sometimes. Men are just like that, we can't read minds, so lead him a bit and he'll surely get it :)
Guys just can’t win.
Women read SO much into nothing... if he calls her beautiful he doesn’t find her sexy, if he calls her sexy he’s only seeing her as an object of sexual gratification.
Some chicks need to come with a manual, I bet these poor guys would actually read that instruction book
There you go. You're grasping what all women (from personal experience) do. It's a never ending series of shit tests that create drama, conflict and distance in relationships until it's over.
Here's a harsh but possible truth: Maybe he doesn't feel like you're sexy.
Some people just aren't. I've been called good-looking & cute, but never sexy because I'm not. Maybe you're like that, too.
Is it weird I don't like being called hot or sexy I much prefer beautiful. I think this is one if those to each their own.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Guys tend to say what they think their girlfriend wants to hear. This would lead me to assume that he doesn't think you would enjoy being called that.
I think you should be happy about that, but that's just my opinion
If it bothers you, let him know, and know why.
He sounds like a man, not a boy
I will rephrase your question...
''Should I create bad feeling, annoyance, distance, and drama in my relationship because of a thought that I have in my mind?''
I'd rather be called Beautiful then sexy
I'd love for someone to tell me I'm beautiful (in real life). That's never happened. Be grateful for what you get!
Put some sexu outfit and ask him how do u look and I bet he will say u look hot AF then tell him that u love hearing that
Damn really? Thats unfortunate, your guy should be telling you these things. Especially with how you look.
I don’t think you should feel offended (that’s too far over that side of the scale). In a relationship, beautiful is more meaningful than calling her hot because that’s something we’d just call a random piece of ass.
I agree. Beautiful and pretty don't imply sex appeal, whereas hot/sexy do. Have you ever gone to the effort of increasing the level of sex appeal around him? Maybe something like lingerie or some other sexual experimentation could make him more likely to sexy it up.
I'd rather get called beautiful/pretty than hot/sexy I bet if it was the other way around you'd still complain
Any girl can be "hot", all it takes is a shedloads of makeup, fake hair, and revealing clothes; but not every girl can be beautiful.
You'll know if he finds you sexy by how he behaves around you, not by the words he says. We guys tend to show our emotions rather than saying them, know what I mean?
You are not hot or sexy in the conventional terms because you are still a virgin.
as of Sunday i'm not :')
Has he seen your brazalian butt lift?
yes he loves it lol
Use your all feminine wiles to get him react that way... by the way you're more sexy than a pretty girl , your boyfriend seems to be of modest behavior!!!
How long have you been together? Maybe he's nervous to call you that or maybe he thinks you don't wanna be called hot or sexy
This is why I think most women are overgrown children. What the fuck is up with this narcissistic and solipsistic way of thinking?
We can't build a society that tells women their relevance is only based on their appearance and then be shocked when women are worried about how they look.
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I consider the term hot a bit slutty. Sexy I personally would only use in bed, so I don't think you should worry just yet. But that's good to know. I thought some girls don't like it.
Yeah
He'll yeah , if he ain't show it either by the way he touches and squeezes you when it's time 😉 does he bit his lip , squeeze ass , hips hard , look like he is about to slob on himself, yeah you should feel offender, and another one is does he look at you like he can't believe your with him, or just look at you and say, damn , with nothing else to say.. 🤓
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