I’ve been seeing this guy for awhile and he doesn’t want a relationship. He takes me out on dates, I’ve met all his friends, we stay up late at night texting on the phone, whenever we have sex he likes to cuddle me and talk. He likes to hear about my day and interests. He always talks about his feelings, past relationships, his family, dreams and about personal stuff. he always asks me how many guys I have sex with and sometimes ask who are guys who comment on my pictures. Then there’s this other side of him that doesn’t care about my feelings at all and he talks about how much he wants to have sex with other girls. Why is he like this?
Most Helpful Guy
Simple answer men are waking up. Look up MGTOW. I don't mean to scare you but this is the trend for boys. They are very aware that commited relationships do not benefit them.
You have to be an exceptional woman to keep one of those men around.
Thank no fault divorce and a gynocentric family law system for that.
See boys grow up seeing dad's ruined by divorce and they are not stupid your in the generation of those boys becoming men.
And... my child's friends they are all on board with not being turned into an unwilling unwanted paycheck.
Terrifying that we've turned the best part of life into this junk. Love is really amazing and it's twisted into this now.
Sorry to be a bummer. And I'm not saying it's your fault. It's not yours specifically or women's just the system our sociaty fought for and it's backlash.6
Most Helpful Girl
Simple, he just wants to hook up with you and noting else. This is what a lot of guys are doing today, they don't want relationships they just want to bang. This is the same poor decision women keep making, stop sleeping with dudes who aren't willing to give you anything else in return except dick. He's gaining more than you are, he's getting free sex without the "hassle" of being in relationship. He's honestly leading you
on and the longer you stick around this guy, the harder it's going to be to let go. He just doesn't want anyone else to have you cause it's taking away his free source of sex away, not because he wants you. He don't want anyone else to have you, but he don't really want you either unless it's for sexual fix. Just do yourself a favor, save yourself from the pain, and leave this guy behind.
And to my fellow women: STOP having sex with dudes who don't want to go further with you when your're looking for more and a serious relationship. You're doing nothing but wasting you're time and hurting yourself in the long run.5
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