So the guy I have been talking to for nine months now, tells me out of the blue that we haven't been dating we are just friends with benefits. It shocked me because everything was going so well and I thought we had something. He still invites me over to his house and we just sit and talk to each other, we make each other dinner, we clean, study, or go out to eat where he buys or I cover us. I thought everytime I came over he just wanted sex but he said no he just wants to get to know me better and I end up just falling asleep next to each other. I'm so confused now... what is this guy doing and is this what a friends with benefits relationship is?