My SO (significant other) has been unfaithful throught our entire relationship let's just start there. I've caught him in lies about being with his ex & other wonen and I've found evidence of women being inside our home while I was out of town. Long story short when we first met he claimed that his ex was out of his life and that she was a "crazy level 10 clinger" at first I believed him until I found out that he was still contacting her by this time I'm 1 1/2 mos preg with both our 1st child he begged & begged for us to have a baby so we had unprotected sex for 3months & got pregnant during my pregnancy he treated me like a queen but still had sexual affairs w his ex, I found out later on & made him confess to cheating & lying as I had suspected. I've been trying to trust his every move since our son has been born but this guy even "went to the bar" while I was @ home having horrible contractions. He's not to be trusted not even for a min in my eyes but he playes w my mind when he brings up marriage and buying a home together... but I just called his ex & she said they had lunch the other day together which he confirmed. He blows my fucking mind. Can any man relate to this & explain to me just what the fuck is going on? I've already told him that I didn't like them keeping contact w each other & he still sneaks around. I also want feedback as to why he thinks it's ok to stay out from 7pm until 2am "at the bar" most nights when we have a brand new baby at home. He also calls to "confirm where he is" like "I'm at the gym" "I'm playing pool" "I'm going to get a massage" which I never even asked him to do not to mention he has this thing he does about every other mos where he & his friends drive down to Mexico to party yep while I'm @ home w our baby he's 41 by the way I'm 27 his ex is 23... I'm thinking this guy doesn't wanna face his age @ all any guys out there know what that's about? Should I trust him being out 5 & 6 hours a night? Or should I just take my son & leave?