Sexual Relationships
+1 y

boyfriend won’t touch my vagina?

I’ve been with my partner nearly 4 years and he still doesn’t like touching my vagina. He always wants oral but never reciprocates. When I ask him and say I think it’s odd he says it’s not.
0 0

Most Helpful Guys

  • Trust me it's very ODD. Makes me wonder which gender he really likes. Why on earth have you put up with that crap for 4 years would be my question to you? Sex isn't a one way street. If there isn't any medical problems, I don't get it. No pun intended but neither are you (getting it.) My suggestion to you would be stop with the BJ's until he come around. If your willing to give and he isn't, that would be a major problem for me. Not sure if this help but you ask the question.

    • It is a big problem because I have a high sex drive but not being fulfilled. If I discuss the childish remarks just piss me off tbh. Like if I’m not good enough go find someone to fuck you all night or mr perfect. I have left before and he’s attempt at trying to make me cum Is pointless. I think for me it’s not just about sex it’s about having a connection and with him I don’t. He’s very robotic. Wham bam you know the bs lol. Yes I understand but when you love someone you hope to work it out but unfortunately doesn’t seem so. Because he’s all for he’s needs. He’s loss 😂 i left 3 days ago

  • So he doesn't have to treat you well, doesn't have to pay for anything, and he gets sex any time he wants? It may be a tough sell, but I'm pretty sure you could negotiate those terms with another guy if you tried.

    • I will I left. Had enough. Life’s too short

    • Thank you

    • So, I hear you're single... 😛

    • Show All

Most Helpful Girls

  • If your boyfriend was gay you wouldn’t be dating this long. He’d have dropped you way back. However some dudes think vaginas are gross or stinky (like fish, not like the actual vagina smell) or just think oral is a woman’s job. It’s odd. Even my boyfriend who tried to go down on me on a very bad day for my body and said he didn’t want to do it again offered to try it once more a few months later.

    • I guess like you say. Some just don’t like it. I’m not bothered by not having oral it’s the fact he can’t even touch it. Looks at it like a train wreck in horror haha. He has many fetishes including feet so idky this is a problem for him. I try to talk about it but he says stop going on if you don’t like it find mr perfect. The response is always very immature. But he wakes up expecting bj and like I just got to perform when he feels like it.

    • You should stop then, and when he whines, throw his words back at him and tell him f he wants a woman who will give him oral when he won’t then he should go find his own ms perfect.

    • I just want out Hun.

  • 4 years and he won't touch your pussy?
    ok so he puts the most sensitive part of his body inside it... but he is too afraid to touch it?
    lmfao move on girl!

    • Not just not touching it. If it slips out he waits for me to put it back in. Yes long time of shit sex and other crap. Too long. But sex is a big thing for me and he’s all about getting pleased. I feel like a human masturbation tool for him

    • Yeah I'd leave lmfao

    • Lol. It’s not changed even after explaining so looks like it lol 😂

  • Don't give him oral till he can man up and eat your box or at least try too

    • I’ve tried not giving it and he will just persist even to the point of just shoving it my mouth

    • Give bad head or say something to turn him off or try to get him to 69. If he's forcing you tell him to leave or try to go somewhere else.

    • Just "shoving it," that is called rape.

    • Show All

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Is my mom cheating Should I tell the guy?
Do girls with ugly bodies send nudes or hot bodies usually?
Do you feel bad when you watch porn sometimes?
If you recognised the person the other side of a gloryhole would you tell them?

What Girls & Guys Said

3 14

  • Are you having orgasms with him at all?

    • No not really. He cums very quick if he does penetrate. Most times I’m giving him pleasure. I tend to avoid sex if I can now because I never get anything out of it lol.

    • He prefers non penetrative sex it seems

    • But he won't help you have an orgasm? Give this selfish guy the heave ho. If he's under 80 he came of age during or after the sexual revolution. He's just being a lazy, jackass.

    • Show All

  • 45+? just get a dildo and a few cats.

    • Don’t like cats but thinking might have to with the dildo

    • try this

      https://www.adameve.com

    • Lol thanks. What’s the point of having a boyfriend then lol

    • Show All

  • He probably doesn't like putting his tongue on vaginas. I can understand why

    • Not just tongue he doesn’t like touching it which I find strange.

    • Maybe he doesn't like how it looks. I mean it is just a random hole close to your asshole lol

    • I don’t like the look of he's bell end but I do it because I love him. Stupid me lol

  • Um lose the loser?

  • He's gay, but can't admit it. Probably closes his eyes and pretends you're a guy.

    • He does and always talking to mates about he’s physique etc

    • Dump him and find a straight guy who can't keep his head out from between your legs. You'll both be happier.

    • Lol. Very true

  • If my partner didn't want to give oral, I would understand. I'd have no problem doing it for them, as long as they don't expect it.
    It's fine if he doesn't want to give it, but he shouldn't be asking for it if he isn't willing to do the same.

    • Well that’s the thing. He just demands a bj and would be quite happy for me to please him all day which I do sometimes but I got needs Yano lol

    • put your foot down and tell him no

    • My foot down on he’s knob lol

    • Show All

  • It's odd to me.

  • Then don't give him oral if it is that much of a problem

  • he doesn't wanna get your cooties in his mouth

  • He doesn't know how to do it.

    • No he doesn’t actually

    • That's his problem

  • Maybe he saw that movie Teeth and is scared

  • Time to move on

    • Yes I seriously think so

    • Good luck

    • Thank you

  • you might smell down there

  • I'm sorry?

  • He is weird

  • Very strange. I find it extremely disrespectful to force you into giving him oral. Especially after he won't return the 'favour'.

    • I know and it causes lots of arguments and he makes me feel bad and he cums so quick all the time I just don’t feel fulfilled

    • Go find someone who can fulfill your needs. Like me. ;) Lol, I'm up for about anything so I find his behaviour strange.

    • Bare that in mind 😬. I do too. Sometimes think he’s gay

    • Show All

  • Vaginas are gross, I don't blame him, he shouldn't expect oral though

Latest Questions

Guy I'm with is not playing with my boobs. What should I do?
Is corn the issue?
If youq could walk around in public naked, would you?
My boyfriend feels bad the sex wasn't that great, is he going to recover?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > boyfriend won’t touch my vagina?