When the chase is done
Are there guys who get tired of a girl after she starts showing interest?
What Guys Said 36
Yes. That's normal. Read about the "boy-girl theory", Robert Ringer. It's a chapter in one of his books. Anyway, we want what we can't have, so we pursue it when we think it's it of reach. That's the challenge, the excitement. Once we are closer, we don't have to work so hard. We get lazy, and take things for granted. (We meaning both sexes. And obviously, this varies greatly from person to person, some people don't take it's for granted as easily). But yes, it happens, and I would consider it to be normal. Just don't let that be a reason to play games and try to get his attention back. If he's lacks, he's comfortable, and happy in the relationship most of the time. That's just my experience1
I lose interest from time to time it’s usually down to boredom or I find something better. But occasionally it comes back though it’s rare.1
Yeah, those are called players. They hit it and quit it1
Hell no, showing interest is how you keep a guy around. However, there is a fine line between showing interest and being super clingy so watch out for that1
Nope i won't chase a girl. If she doesn't show intrest back then the interaction is done. Or once i have her im all for the ride and doesn't get dull.1
No bigger turn on than someone who wants you.0
Sadly, there are. Personally, if a girl would show interest in me... I would be in heaven.
I RARELY get girls who are interested in me, romantically that is and I have no clue why.
All my friends had at least 3 or more girlfriends before, and I got one once, and one girl confesses to me in elementary. So yeeeeah. Dunno why. But, let me not go on a tangent here and derail the original question ;)0
All boys are differnt and I can bet some like that sort of feeling and when the chase is done can't be bothered but personally if I have a girl chasing after me, what I did for a year it was a great feeling but the moment she got me she changed, it wasn't that she wasn't chasing me any more it was the fact that it was like she was trying any more, so as long as you keep your feelings there I don't think he would be put off0
Well, sometimes the battle to see iff u can get the girl is more intressting, than the girl itself, sad but true1
Players get bored yes.0
Any time there is no challenge, a guy will get bored.3
Not in my case0
When I see that a girl likes me and I do really like her, I won't get tired of her, except if she doesn't give me space...
When I absolutely din't like her, I'll avoid them.0
I hate the chase because some females out here playing games so in my case no unless I find something out about her0
Some guys, which I hate to admit it, do start to lose interest. For some its like a hunt, a kill they hope to get, and when they get it its dead/(slowly dies) and over with 😞0
Depends on her goals and intelligence. Looks don't matter if you are already hooked.0
Used to be my thing when I was younger. Now it's just something to be ashamed of.0
When shen didn't give me positive response.0
I hate the chase and I don't normally message people first either0
Yes some does but mostly not0
Yes there are guys like that I'm not cause to me that's redundant0
To a certain point it's ok but blatantly being ignored is frustrating0
Sure there are. Their just immature.0
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What Girls Said 4
I think so. Some guys like the excitment of chasing a girl, and when she finally gives in, they lose interest. When this happens, you know they're not worth it. Let me just point out that girls also do this.1
Very primitive. But some guys do that. I believe a mature guy should not do.0
When I showed interest he pulled away... 😒😂0
yes. first hand experience. It took him 1 month finally i said yes. Took me to many dates, then after 2 weeks I finally said yes, he said he doesn't think we should date
I said ok. Then I started dating someone else, and he got to learn that, only to make him attracted to me again0
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