Neflix & chill or sex & chill? (final)?

this guy took me on a date paid for my dinner and seemed to really like me. now he wants me to comeover the third time we hang out. here’s what he’s said about it below. i’m the blue. is he just trying to have sex with me or is he serious and just want to watch a movie with me?neflix & chill or sex & chill? (final)?neflix & chill or sex & chill? (final)?neflix & chill or sex & chill? (final)?neflix & chill or sex & chill? (final)?


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  • That's Very easy.
    Yes the guy do wanna have sex but he is not a fuckboi and a gentleman.
    Now, You are very very judgmental and you have already tagged him as a bad guy.
    He definitely is an idiot, despite so many insults he is still talking to you, no other guy would do that!

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    • hey sorry if i was a sort of rude to you the other day about coming over, i just kind of wanted to see if we were on the same page and what to expect but i apologize for assuming your character when you’ve done nothing but been nice to me

    • should i send him that

    • Yeah, that will be nice!
      And an useless advice, tell him clearly what exactly you want! If things didn't work out, you can leave on good terms without any bitterness 😊

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  • I think he possibly sounds ok but you have attacked him based on previous experiences and there is not much room to go anywhere for him and come out looking ok. Perhaps start the conversation again, explain past experiences briefly, causing you to be very slow to trust a guy and that assuming you are, let him know you would like to go around so long as he knows nothing like that is going to come from it.

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    • should i text him this

    • hey sorry if i was a sort of rude to you the other day about coming over, i just kind of wanted to see if we were on the same page and what to expect but i apologize for assuming your character when you’ve done nothing but been nice to me

    • Yea something like that. As you just said you think he is alright, try to let him know that you think him different to your previous experiences I would say.

  • I think he sounds impatient, and trying too hard I think. Your keeping your guard up nothing wrong with that. I think him mentioning Netflix and stuff I think he expects something to happen. And when you mentioned it sounds like Netflix and chill he just sounds dickish about it

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  • Communication is key. If you say you don't want to, than he knows you don't want to. If he still wants to watch a movie, than it will be watching a movie. We are not all rapists you know. It doesn't matter what he wants in this case, it's up to you really. And yes he wants sex with you. We all do.

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  • Just ask directly what he's wanting or expecting. Most guys I think would be hoping for sex, but doesn't necessarily mean he's expecting it. Communication and honesty. Don't make assumptions.

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  • You're acting like a bitch. If I was him, I would have left you immediately, and never talked to you again. Seriously.

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    • why?

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    • i didn’t mean i didn’t want to fuck i meant like im looking for a relationship not a one night stand

    • Well tbh I think you already fucked up. But you can try. And be sure he knows you don't want just a one night stand, but don't act like a bitch. What you did there was terrible.

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