this guy took me on a date paid for my dinner and seemed to really like me. now he wants me to comeover the third time we hang out. here’s what he’s said about it below. i’m the blue. is he just trying to have sex with me or is he serious and just want to watch a movie with me?
Neflix & chill or sex & chill? (final)?
What Guys Said 21
I think he sounds impatient, and trying too hard I think. Your keeping your guard up nothing wrong with that. I think him mentioning Netflix and stuff I think he expects something to happen. And when you mentioned it sounds like Netflix and chill he just sounds dickish about it0
Just ask directly what he's wanting or expecting. Most guys I think would be hoping for sex, but doesn't necessarily mean he's expecting it. Communication and honesty. Don't make assumptions.1
First, I hope you got consent to putting these private messages out on this app for all too see because #consentissexy and it's wrong if you didn't consult him before doing so. Secondly, trust is lost these days. If he has given you no reason to not trust him the time you've hung out with him, why are you reluctant? You are keeping this guy in limbo and guys hate to be in limbo. If I were him their would only be a handful more times I would contact you to set up another chill hangout. After that I wouldn't waste my time further I would find someone more confident and not afraid to take risk. Basically it would be a red flag for me.0
I think he possibly sounds ok but you have attacked him based on previous experiences and there is not much room to go anywhere for him and come out looking ok. Perhaps start the conversation again, explain past experiences briefly, causing you to be very slow to trust a guy and that assuming you are, let him know you would like to go around so long as he knows nothing like that is going to come from it.1
Anyway if you go to his house it would be your decision to hookup with this guy. Going there won't do any harm. I hope he won't force you since he is acting like a gay.0
Communication is key. If you say you don't want to, than he knows you don't want to. If he still wants to watch a movie, than it will be watching a movie. We are not all rapists you know. It doesn't matter what he wants in this case, it's up to you really. And yes he wants sex with you. We all do.0
If you don't want to go over to his house then don't, no need to be annoying.1
It sounds like you really didn’t give the guy a fair chance and already decided what kind of person he was instead of letting him show you. That’s not really fair to him.0
It seems he is not going to force you. After all it is ur decision if u want sex or neflix. he is up for both.0
Take his word for whats it worth if you dont want to
Go over and waste your time then that’s how you feel but being back and forth about it doesn't help either of
3rd date no sex. Bruh would not even be a second0
I'd chance it, but if he tries to get in your pants go for the door.0
Wow--you REALLY don't want to hook with this guy, huh? Not attracted to him?0
I don't like the way he talks0
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