When he's the one who left me...
Why does my childs father argue and make threats to a new guy I am seeing?
What Guys Said 9
Well he left you and cheated so he has no right being upset with whoever you see, he sounds like he is possessive and a control freak , have your current boyfriend have words with him if that doesn't help then get the police involved and get a restraining. order on his ass0
Could be either his insecurity or he simply thinks that this new guy is not right for you or something.0
He left you because you did something you shouldn't have done and he does this because he still has feelings for you.0
Before I can specifically help, I need more information on the circumstances.
Generally speaking, your ex might feel that he is being replaced as the child's father by a stranger. I know that in my case, I have told the mother of my daughter that if she meets someone new, she cannot introduce him to my daughter until I have met him and laid out some ground rules with regards to how he treats my daughter (equally if I meet someone she gets to do the same).
As children tend to live with the mother after a break up, the father can feel that his relationship with his child is under threat. There is also a fear that the new man will be given more attention than the child and it does happen (see one of my questions entitled "Am I Unreasonable" posted about two weeks ago as an example).
Again, in your specific case I would need more information in order to help and provide a possible solution.0
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Probably intimidated or doesn't like him around your child0
What Girls Said 1
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