Why does my childs father argue and make threats to a new guy I am seeing?

When he's the one who left me...

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  • Before I can specifically help, I need more information on the circumstances.

    Generally speaking, your ex might feel that he is being replaced as the child's father by a stranger. I know that in my case, I have told the mother of my daughter that if she meets someone new, she cannot introduce him to my daughter until I have met him and laid out some ground rules with regards to how he treats my daughter (equally if I meet someone she gets to do the same).

    As children tend to live with the mother after a break up, the father can feel that his relationship with his child is under threat. There is also a fear that the new man will be given more attention than the child and it does happen (see one of my questions entitled "Am I Unreasonable" posted about two weeks ago as an example).

    Again, in your specific case I would need more information in order to help and provide a possible solution.

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    • He hasn't met my baby yet. I have that much respect because I wouldn't want him to do the same to me.

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    • I don't agree with your views but I appreciate your feedback.

    • You are welcome but for your child's sake please think about what I have said. I am speaking from experience as a father that is no longer with the mother of my daughter so I know near enough exactly what the guy is feeling.

      Best of luck to you, your ex and your child

Most Helpful Girl

  • That’s weird

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    • Maybe he pushed tounaway and left and you were supposed to chase them... narcissistic move

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  • Well he left you and cheated so he has no right being upset with whoever you see, he sounds like he is possessive and a control freak , have your current boyfriend have words with him if that doesn't help then get the police involved and get a restraining. order on his ass

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  • Cause he don't want to see you happy with anyone else.

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    • Why not? He's moved on.

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    • The only way it'll work out is if your guy friend will stand and fight for you if need be.

    • He just brushed it off and ignored it.

  • Could be either his insecurity or he simply thinks that this new guy is not right for you or something.

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  • He left you because you did something you shouldn't have done and he does this because he still has feelings for you.

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  • Probably intimidated or doesn't like him around your child

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    • He hasn't been around my child. We only started dating a few months ago. I am not that kind of person to just have anyone around my baby..

  • Possesiveness.

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  • Insecure

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  • why do you think.. he's still the father to your child

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    • What does that have to do with him disrespect a new man in my life who has done nothing to him and hasn't been around my child not once..

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    • There's a huge communication barrier. It always results in him ignoring my questions and me getting frustrated because he won't communicate anything to me. If someone doesn't want me, has a girlfriend, and has moved on what is there left to discuss really?

    • figure it out

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