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Here's the thing. You have boys then you have men. Boys seek validation from others, they're also afraid of rejection. Men are self validated, they don't give a fuck if you don't like them so if you draw their interest then they're gonna approach you. If you reject them for whatever reason they're gonna be like "Hmmm, maybe I came on too strong or maybe I misread the situation? Next time I'll make sure to fix that problem" after that you're out of his mind he probably has something else he needs to worry bout like livin life. But if a boy gets rejected he's all like "Damn wonder what I did wrong maybe she just didn't like me." they automatically assume they're the problem and to avoid feeling bad they don't approach. I made this sound way too simple than it actually is so if you don't understand don't be afraid to ask.
Nope, I got it all. Nice explanation!!
Let me ask you a question: you think loving someone means loving them as they are? Or do you think otherwise.
According to me love is love. Doesn't matter why it happens kr with whom. But there maybe certain things to first get attracted to.
Hmmm, not the explanation I was expecting. I'm a very pragmatic person so I see love as a problem and solution to whoever is involved. So although I can't understand your reasoning I'll just say Thank you. Though to be honest I'd really like you to evaluate.
You're not 17, are you? o. O
I mean @21feminist
Oh what I am seventeen, just turned seventeen on the twentieth too.
Damn... It really sounds like I'm lying doesn't it. But why'd you ask anyways?
Same lol, only really few does approach but many stares and keeps on glancing
Lucky you having someone approaching you 😊😊
Dont worry, the right one for you will 😉
Hope so 😙
Guys are super intimidated by women who they think are stunning. I know that the way it's set up is that men are supposed to approach women. I will tell you, however that guys are just as fearful of rejection as you all are. It's a fact. As a shy guy, I wish women would approach more often -- given they realize their much higher success rate, but I digress.
But what if they're just as shy as the guy? That's a dead end I'm afraid..
you put them of as you are so nice looking l am the same no girls think that l would date them as l an very nice looking
l am a very normal kind of guy from scotland looking to love a nice girl? edwin x
Good to know
thank you edwin x
Your name is Edwin... So that's why you are writing Edwin x in the end of each comment?
yes its a thing from work l won't do it again if you don t want me to? its a habit
I didn't mind
Maybe it's because they are intimidated by your looks. Happens with me too.
But you're the guy, why don't you approach them?
Never met a girl whom I can trust completely. And also because I don't want to fall for any girl at this age. I first wanna study and work hard.
But having a casual relationship won't affect you, don't you think?
I don't know. I never dealt with a girl before for such matter. I think I would either fall for her which would destroy my career or I would get bored of her.
So I guess, you have never been with a girl before, doesn't look like it... 😅😒
And why does it not look like it?
You know what I mean 😅..
Now you see, it's just a judgement based upon the looks
Whoa, pretty nice explanation. Nice.
By the way, can I ask you question? When are you going to be looking forward for a relationship? Just asking though 😅
I don't know. For now I would like to work on my career. If I get in a relationship now, I would not be able to pay proper attention to the girl and I think that it's a little turn off. If the girl understands my priorities (including her of course), then I think I might get in relationship with that girl.
Wow!! That's really respectable and I really appreciate it!! Really I do. It's very hard to find a guy like you. No wonder you don't have a girlfriend, yeah they must already be thinking that you are already taken.
Well, thanks a lot.
Yours welcome, just let me know if you need opinions on anything. 😉
It's because your HOT! And the guys you're around are intimidated by you. When you start hanging around older men they won't have that problem.
Cause they don't have the big balls to say right in your face what they wanna say...
That's a shame
I agree with you. I could garantuee that I have the balls to talk to you
Tbh, I can't just trust anyone online, plus I am too inexperienced with guys
But you never met me ;p I will talk to you and I'm saying what I think even if that would not be what you expect
Is it so?
You look extremely hot right, but you're still a women with their needs so ;)
Yeah, sometimes I do feel
You see :)
And I bet you're a really shy girl right?
Yeah because I am too inexperienced
Oh girl :)
Stop please thats just too much :D
You start to turn me on
Let's mind our businesses from now on
Yes please otherwise you'll drive me crazy :D
What? Was I getting on your nerves? Damn.
No the opposite
Oh, I get. 😂😂
You know what I mean :x
But you can still talk with me ^^
Don't know maybe I have no other choice lets continue ^^
If you're really that unexperienced then I would be the most charming man on earth
Say what? Most charming man on earth? 😂😂
Some time i dont approach woman because i feel like their out of my league, or if im not dress decent, loll😀Twoo of my top reasonsSome times just to lazzy, loll😁
Suckss but yeaah,😂😂😀
You say they stare at you , so you muat be attractive , too attractive that they think you're unattainable
Maybe to them you don't look approachable.. To them you probably look stuck up, and maybe already have a boyfriend so they not even gon try.. Lol..
Girls in 2018 and around get d*cks thrown at them from every single direction. We as men, think that every female has like 10 dudes she can pick from, so we just dont bother. it seems like too much work tbh. Not saying its the girls' fault, its not. thats the main reason a lot of girls dont get approached
Some guys just seeing you looking gorgeous and must have a boyfriend so they just keep looking, maybe they even think that u r out of their league.
I don’t think it’s chsnged much! It was the same when I was younger!
Because your beautiful and that can intimidate men, some are probably thinking what would a gorgeous girl like you want with a guy like me
Too attractive and intimidating make a small natural flaw obvious it gives a guy a chance
intimidating. Not your fault, but if a guy thinks a girl is out of his league he won't try to pursue her. Guys usually go for girls they think they have a shot with.
Every guys stares u but dnt approach u or talks u because they think that u r much level higher than them..😋😊😍😘
The lack the confidence to talk to an attractive girl. Can be nerve wracking for some guys or they think you're out their league so they don't even bother
They don't find you attractive
Dial down the savage 😂
You might be intimidating to them.
Yeah that happens; they assume you’d reject them or you’re taken
Didn't ever think it would be like that
Maybe you are over qualified to approach
Ask them haha
Nope I won't
I think that maybe because you look hot. I don't know.
Yeah I now know
How do you look when you go out?
I wear a jeans or a miniskirt. On top, however, it changes.
Just do it haha
Why are you guys over here too desperate?
OK sorry don't follow me hahaha
Don't get me wrong
It's OK I'm sorry
Oh, don't be
Hope you'll find the answer
If a woman is pretty then I assume she's taken.
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