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If i was with someone and truly had feelings for them it wouldn't matter how far of a drive it was. Unless there's an issue of gas money or not enough time to spend. Still not a good excuse tho.
I know if I brought it up he'd spend more time with me, but I don't want to ask for that.I'm worried he's just looking for a wife and mom for his future kids (he wants to have a son before 30 and that's coming up.) it just feels like he doesn't like me as a person but wants me to help accomplish his future goals. I want to be appreciated for me.
Thats understandable and im sure you know a reason not to get involved with someone unless he's someone you want to have that life with. If you're already second guessing then it means you probably have those doubts.
Could be plenty of reasons, 20 miles isn’t that far.. why don’t you ask him
I'm nervous that he will start hanging out with me more but only as an ultimatum.
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