I broke up with my ex more than a year ago and we haven't been in touch all this time.. except a few times when he messaged me but I ignored him, but even that was a long time ago. However, a few days ago he messaged me on fb asking me how I'm doing.. I replied because I didn't want to be arrogant and we talked a little bit... then 2 days later he sent me a funny video. He has a girlfriend and he's been with her for 6 months I think and they seem happy. Why would he contact me out of the blue? I doubt he wants to be friends... he has friends, I don't think he neccessarily needs me. by the way, he didn't say anything about his girlfriend when we talked so he didn't brag or anything.
I forgot to mention that I'm not interested in getting back with him. I'm just curious and annoied when exes decide to pop up in your life out of the blue.