You risk losing a friendship. And everyone in your friend group finding out. So it's scarier.
So how do you act around her?
In my case, the feelings are purely sexual. Have been around this woman for so long that... I'm just sexually attracted to her. I guess the lower parts of my brain are wondering why I would spend so much time around a woman if there's no "payoff". I guess I contact her more than I otherwise would. We are friends, but it's odd, 'cause we don't have that much in common, and I'm not crazy about her personality. When we hang out I try to make more eye contact. Sometimes try to steer the conversation towards relationship stuff. I guess basically I am just too cowardly to make a move. I feel pretty sure it would fail.
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Bit more shy quieter advoid eye contact but I also do it to any girl I find modertly attractive so nearly every girl
I treat her like any regular person.
Isn’t that difficult? Why don’t you tell her how you feel? Don’t you ever slip up and give yourself away?
Because she has a boyfriend lol.
Lol got it! So wow. You hold it all inside. I’m sorry. Are you trying to date?
It's alright and yeah I'm just trying to be respectful of her relationship, if she is ever single however it'll be a different ball game lol.
Even if you were dating another women? Would you leave her to be with your friend? What makes your friend so special? How long have you liked? Loved? Her
I'm at a point in my life where I don't really feel I have it in me to get to build a relationship with new women. I've had a crush on her since high school, 15 years. She's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen, and I don't mean it as something guys say to be nice, I wouldn't take any model/actress/singer/athlete over her. Besides the physical our beliefs line up in how we believe a person should be, we're both gamers, and we're both nerds.
So you may wait your entire life for her? What if she marries this boyfriend? You have to tell her your feelings. Now!
Just hide them
Isn’t that difficult? Why don’t you tell her how you feel?
No I have suppressed my feelings about being not wanted for 2 years now. And I am at the point I don't feel anything, but that I me.
Oh. So after 2 years you no longer like her?
I have been single and no friends for 5 years
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