My guess is that it's a biological/evolutionary thing. Most animals have some physical characteristic that makes one sex attracted to the other. In addition to their functional use for feeding babies, I think boobs are one of those things for humans.In terms of physical characteristics, I think maybe it's the curves and when they're nicely shaped the gracefulness of the curves. They just look aesthetically pleasing. In terms of feel, the softness exudes femininity and the contrast of the softness with the hardness of an erect nipple is very appealing.Going back to evolution, I think breasts were a sign to males of three things:1) This is a female that you can procreate with2) She's capable of feeding the children3) (With erect nipples) She's desiring to mate with you. (Yes I know it could just be because they're cold, but I think guys interpret it as a sign of arousal anyway.)Another part of it I think is the cultural approach of keeping them mostly hidden. My guess would be that in cultures where women are routinely topless, they're not nearly as big a deal as they are in places where exposing them in public is taboo. With a lot of things, people crave things they can't have or rarely have more than things they can have any time they want.My guess is that if women starting walking around topless everywhere in places where that isn't done now there would be a period of time where guys wouldn't get anything accomplished but eventually seeing naked breasts would become routine and a lot less exciting than they are now. (Not completely uninteresting, but less than they are now.)
Wow, that is an interesting, well thought out answer. I was nodding the whole time I read it. Thank you for taking the time to post this. :)
Well, I've thought about this before because I've been asked this question by my ex-wife and girlfriend (and I think at least one person on this site too) because they didn't really understand why they were so appealing. I don't think they still understand even after the explanation, which might partly go back to my point about them not being as intensely appealing if you can see them and touch them any time you want to. Plus probably most women's hormones are set up to find male characteristics more sexually appealing than female characteristics (for evolutionary reasons). I don't understand the appeal of some things that women find sexy in a guy because I'm wired to desire females.Did my explanation help you understand it any better? I'm guessing that you don't really think they're that exciting and that's why you asked?
Well, you know men are very, very visual and are attracted and motivated by a girl's body they find attractive. Breasts just look incredibly attractive and sexy. Everything about them, their curvy rounded shape, the sexy brownish areola, the nipple that just looks so kissable and suckable. Oh, and do they feel amazing. There is nothing on Earth as soft and delicate as to the way breasts feel. The softest skin/tissue ever. Who knows how biology works? What makes a man attracted to anything on a woman? Why are we not attracted to trees but to women. It is just how our brains are hard wired. Men and women are mostly the same, we are made of the same stuff, a skeleton, covered with red, fibrous muscles, filled with icky, gooey organs and covered with skin. Why is it the male version of that doesn't interest me sexually in any way but the female version, a little curvier, a little smaller just a couple of different "bits" and I am irresistibly attracted to them? How does any of that work? It is just the way the brain works. It is hard wired in. Breasts look so sexy that it can't be quantified. The roundness, shapeliness, softness, fullness are so sexy and attractive. How does any of it work. What makes you like a mans stomach or shoulders or chest or butt?
Thank you. :) good info, and even a little poetic.
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To be honest, breasts as a stand alone part of the body, do nothing for me, same with a woman’s vagina. I only reason why I like the two is because I associate them with being attached to a woman, a feminine face. For breasts, I don’t really care for the specific size, but if we’re talking about extremes, it’s better to be too small than too big.
lol. good answer
I'm actually not really a boobs man but I do like how they look like... I might be reaching but I'm guessing he has something to do with the fact we spend the first month's of our lives really close to them... So it my be an unconscious feeling that remains even when we re adults and makes us like kissing them as much as looking at them... But that's just my opinion
I think it has to do more with our natural human instinct. They are attractive to us and we just want to hold, squeeze and suck on them. The sucking part is more of a comfort thing. I happen to enjoy them quite a bit but wasn't aloud to with my ex because she didn't enjoy it. They just feel good though. I don't care what size they are. They are something to enjoy for me.
You think we understand why girls love dick and balls so much? At least breasts are soft warm cushiony pillows... I don't get what's the confusion.
We don't like the way your junk looks though.
Good, coz I agree it looks hideous. Breasts on the other hand.. 😍
Lol. Okay so why don’t actual warm cushiony pillows make you aroused?
Well that's silly. Why don't hotdog sausages and potato sacks make you aroused? Do you see the fault in your reasoning?
lol. touche' Now peanut butter cups on the other hand……..
Ahahaha, not sure what part of the body that's supposed to resemble but it still sounds funny 😂
It doesn’t I’m just hungry. Haha
Oh, I see
Did you just sigh and shake your head at my answer, or were you smiling? >:( lol ;)
Lol no I smiled :)
They're fun to play with, be it with hands, mouth, etc.But I think there's also an instinctual aspect
I’m thinking the instinct part may be close. :)
Yeah, like it's kind of a subtle sign of how well they can provide for babies (feeding I mean)
it's sheer nature. males like things in females that are related to birthing and child care. in any species, not just humans
very nice it goes back to when males where born we like to suck
thanks and we love our mums
Yeah but so so we. Haha. jk
I'm not a boob man, ass man or leg man.It's the entire package.(I'm a crotch man)
Someone just wants some easy Xper...
Yep, answering questions just to troll will give you that. Keep up the good work. I hope experience on here isn’t how you judge success darling. ;)
Nah! I don't blame you. It's the Internet; who really cares? Dunno why "troll" is in there at all; if you think a comment like mine makes someone a troll, then you don't really know what a troll is.
Well why did you take the time to answer the question if it bothered you, or even if you’re indifferent? Wouldn’t that say more about you needing to get a life than it does the fact that you think I ask dumb questions?
First tell me , don't you like boobs?😒Don't you get wet and aroused looking at boobs of other women?
It's aesthetically pleasing.
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