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It would kill any feelings. I would start blanking and ignoring them privately but not let them realise by acting normal with them when I saw them. If it was just dating or online then I would just cut off contact. It's easy then, when they play games and do a bit of both like be friendly and flirty then that is worse because it leaves you guessing. I now know that it shouldn't leave you guessing- they don't like or care about you enough to properly date you. They just want to use you for sex or attention. You can't force someone to be attracted to you - the more you try and escape the 'friendzone' the more unattractive you will become. In fact, the best way to potentially escape it is to stop caring and moving on because then they will miss the attention. They might even try and start flirting and toying with you again - don't let them win, they will treat you like rubbish when they get it again. Move on - you'll save yourself a lot of heartache in the long run.
I wouldn't act any kind of way around them because I wouldn't BE around them. No sense in chasing after a girl who doesn't like me
How about if you're confused about them liking you? Like they sometimes act like they're attracted to you and flirt with you, like to cuddle with you and would be okay sleeping next to you etc. but still you're "just friends"?
I got caught up in that sort of thing when I was younger. Mixed signals will drive a guy crazy. Its emotional torture, and it would be my own fault. Never again. I would lay it on the line as soon as I realized I liked her as more than a friend. Yes or no. No? Cool. Finding dates becomes super easy for men after they're about 30 or 35, and the opposite for women.
So basically you'd sit her down and have the talk? Do you think there's other ways to sort out the situation? I see people playing mind games and testing each others all the time, do you think that's rather a bad idea or a good idea?
No other healthy way out of that situation. Yes, people do unhealthy things all the time.
If I believed they friend zoned me try to remain friends with them and start to distance myself so romantic feelings fade
You wouldn't try to escape the friendzone?
U can't make people attracted to you what u are asking is that to escape the friend zone is to attempt to make that person attracted to u it's not possible
How about if you're confused about it. Like they sometimes act like they're attracted to you and flirt with you, like to cuddle with you and would be okay sleeping next to you etc. but still you're "just friends"?
I would ask if they like me more as I like them more simple stuff
Okay, cool, thanks :)
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