Don't beat yourself up about this. I have known chaste men at almost all ages. Your question suggests you are worried about being a virgin at 21 softened with the word girlfriend.If you just want to loose your virginity well there are many ways to get that done. Girlfriends are a different thing. Girlfriend is about a relationship sex is usually part of it but relationship first. To me just the word girlfriend is sexy beyond measure.
Doesn't matter to me. It matters the person who you are today.
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If it's by choice, nothing if not by choice that is a little iffy
Not a big deal really. 19 and had only one serious relationship. Rather than having someone who is not on your vibe and drives you mad is way better to wait for the right person.
"Something must be wrong with him"
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