Was he disappointed? He asked me if that is what I want for myself?

I told a guy whom I've been speaking to for a while (about 9 weeks) that I'll be moving for work to the other side of the world soon. We've been trying to meet up but just can't find a good time.

When I told him that, I thought he would view it as me trying to make excuses to not meet again and ghost me. He read the message but took a while to get back to me and I wasn't expecting him to.

His response that came a little after a day was that place is really far away haha and asked me if that was what I wanted.

I sensed disappointment in his response. His response also came off as quite sweet/sincere. I've been quite ruthless in breaking dates with him so.. Guys, is that how you try to mask your disappointment or subconsciously show her that you're actually quite into her?
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Was he disappointed? He asked me if that is what I want for myself?
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