Met this guy on OkCupid three years ago. We never met in person because he was in the military but we chatted through the dating site then he friended me on Facebook and spent an entire night chatting on Facebook messenger. The next morning I go online, sent him a message (to which he didn't respond) and later saw that he unfriended me. I figured he lost interest in talking to me and moved on. So we didn't talk again. This week out of the blue I get a friend request from him, which I accept then he messaged me telling me I was pretty and asking why we stopped talking. I replied "because you defriended me and I just figured you didn't want to talk to me anymore. I normally don't chase guys if I feel like they don't want to talk to me." Then he said "that's your own damn fault" but when I asked him to explain how that was my fault he wouldn't." Was I expected to chase him?