I have been hanging out with one of my male friends a lot more recently. He invites me out pretty much all weekend every weekend lately. This past weekend I was out of town with family and he told me several times how he was spending time with mutual female friends we have (having coffee, going to a movie, etc) and then wanted to invite one of them out with us for our normal Sunday night dinner we always have (we always go out just the two of us to hang out before the work week starts). Based on how much time we have been spending together and how much time we spend talking when we aren't together I honestly thought we were moving things in another direction, however now I just don't know. While I really like him, and I don't mind him going and doing these things, I don't understand why he felt he had to tell me about all of it (multiple times), afterwards?