Whenever there's an ad about a woman, shown on tv or youtube ad, whether she's putting on makeup, etc. My husband would stop what he's doing, stared and smiled. He does it specifically to Asian women only. But when it comes to other races, he doesn't stop what he's doing to check her out. However, if that woman is naked or half naked, regardless of her race, he checks her out. And he does all of this in front of me! I feel disrespected and i wonder if he thinks she's prettier than me. He never looks at me anymore. Only sometimes and thats only when we talk. But he barely talks to me, only when he needs something. Were like roommates. I know that its normal to see other people other than your lover attractive, but that doesn't mean you have to check them out w your lover there. Its like wth am i even to you? Before, when such things like these come up, hed look at me instead cause he feels its disrespectful. But now he's doing it so often.