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Two ways to approach dating. You can either try and appeal to people (keeping in mind that if you are trying to appeal to them now, the day you stop, problems will arise and you may end up with someone you shouldn't) or you can be yourself and then the people who attract will like the real you. I'd just be thankful they fucked off now instead of fucking you for a few months then leaving
What were these guys like? Did they have anything in common? What were the Dates like?
One nothing, the other two, had lots of potential
Could be a lot of things, like they met someone else- it doesn't necessarily mean that it reflects negatively on you. Even if you don't give someone a completely honest reason when you say you are no longer interested, you should at least give them the courtesy. I'd be worried, though, if you're not having good Dates, because that might mean you Need to make adjustments.
two in one month so i feel you
Guys get ghosted like that constantly. It says something about the people you are talking to, not about you.
Yes it says you are attracting guys. Compare that to how many men and women who don't even meet 3 people in a month.
maybe they wanted a quick hookup and realized that its not going to happen
It speaks more to the general mindset of young men these days. 3rd wave feminism has created a terrible culture for gender relations. Girls your age didn't make this mess, but it kind of falls on you to clean it up. Not fair, I know :/
Damn if three broads ghosted me in one month I'd probably feel like shit.
At least you get that far. I don't bother attempting to get girls numbers only to get ghosted.
That mean's you're just not a social butterfly or you're coming off as desperate.
Nothing is wrong with you. This generation just does that shit.
There must be a commonality amongst them
Maybe in motives but they all seemed and looked different
But do they all think in a similar fashion? Typically, people are attracted to the same type of person throughout their lives. Or maybe it's something you did? Something that was said?
No they all seemed different to me. i probably am messing something about the guys i like
All you can do is think back to the turning point with each f them and try to recall what happened.
Thats the thing, with the one i thought would get farther, there was no turning point
With respect, there was a turning point... or you would have gone farther
I know, it just wasn’t obvious
Perhaps they're intimidated by your intelligence? That happens to some guys.
Nah. You're overthinking.
Some guys are assholes 😒
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