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Yes it is okay. Just think about all the jerks that screw around have a girl for a night but will never be able to be in a stable relationship. Once they get old and woman want different things they will loose game and end up being super bitter and lonely.
I have literally envisioned being an elderly person and telling the staff in the nursing home how I never got the chance to experience what Love was like. How I never got the chance to hold a girl in my arms and tel her how much she means to me
We probably all don't have game, we are not born with it. We learn it.
I have the same actually. Want to know more about my problems I had and have? And how I kind of fixed it?
Dude this isn’t fixable
Yes you can. I'm autistic, come on.
Dude women avoid me
I used to be invisible for them. If I didn't avoid them they would trip over me all the time!
Dude at this point I’m just trying not to get sad when I think about it cause I’m 26 soon to be 27 eventually I have to shut the door on the chapter of my life. I have tried for many years with no success and only poor self esteem to show for it
I was 24 when I got my first hug from a girl.
Ok but I haven’t even gotten that like I said women hate and avoid me and continuing to try just makes my self esteem worse
That's what they do. You need to learn to accept that. I'm not very good at the game but from where I came from is a big improvement. I have some rules for myself that seem to work. And get in the pants of a girl within the second date (if they give me a chance to date them) which is also necessary to make them stay for longer. People seem to hate my analytical and honest behavior. And it is in the way of the dating process. Also my physical shape is probably horrible. Nobody ever said anything negative about it. But thats kinda weird because anarexia patients would be jalous at me. So I don't know what your problems are. But I even know guys in wheelchairs that can get dates.
A lot of it has to do with my looks but also my hard working personality https://imgur.com/oU3YNZ8
Yeh well. Anything can be a reason why it's harder. But nothing is a reason to never be with a girl. Just don't give up. They seem like horrible persons, and maybe they are. They may act irrational, primitive and irresponsible. But you need to accept it that it's the way it is. And also that we need girls to be happy. It's stupid. But we are all just humans.
Dude I have self respect I will give up before I beg
Sure, do whatever you want. Staying alone for ever is perfectly legal.
If I’m set in my career I probably won’t even think about it.
Just be confident in who you are. You don't need "game". You are special just the way you are. Don't change. The right girl will come along.
Yeah I sit back and watch people easily get girls and realize that I can’t do that I am different
Well if you just want to "get a girl" then heck why don't you just get drunk at a party and bang an equally drunk girl. I doubt that's what you want. If you want a meaningful relationship, don't worry about "getting girls" and worry about yourself. Make sure you don't look like a slob, don't be a jerk, and talk to a girl, not because she's pretty, but because she has a good heart.
I have tried that
Dude, you are perfect. Keep living by your own rules and learn to overcome your shortcomings. We all do. :)
It dosent feel like I can overcome this
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