That sounds not right for me... eww your teacher is creepy 😷
He's actually a very nice and normal guy. I don't know why he's behaving this way with only me.
That doesn't seem right. Not sure why he would need to
Exactly. This isn't normal, right? What's up with him?
I don't know his back story, but I'd be very cautious if I were you.
Should I tell you everything that he's been doing? His behaviour has been very strange lately.
Sure. You can PM it if you want. If not, that's ok too
I catch him staring at me sometimes in class, other times he even stares at me with a transfixed gaze.He's always getting concerned about my health and can even tell how I'm feeling just by looking at my face. This week while class was going on, he suddenly asked in front of everyone "What happened?" I just nodded my head saying that nothing (even though I was ill) then he further added "Are you sure?" I just nodded again in affirmative and thought he'd leave it at that. Well he didn't. A few minutes later, he came to my seat and again asked me what's wrong. I finally told him I'm not well so he chidded me for coming to class like this (I've come to class when I was ill before).
Anyways, this is not the first time he's done something like this. He's always getting concerned about my health and well being and even defends if me if another teacher says something against me. I've been noticing that in every class, he finds an excuse to talk to me one on one (it's always something personal). He doesn't give this kind of special treatment/attention to to anyone else.
Yeah, he has a slight obsession with you. Perhaps some lust. I'm sure he finds you attractive. That would be really embarrassing. Maybe you should talk to someone about it? You don't want things getting outta hand..
Yesterday, he went totally mad. I was sitting at the back of the class with a friend and he still kept giving me extra attention (I usually sit at the front seat). He kept repeatedly asking me in front of eveyone what's wrong? how I'm feeling? and that I'm looking a bit better today. Also, when I just nodded my head saying that everything is fine, he said "No you just can't keep nodding your head and saying that everything is alright. I know you're not alright." He talks to me in front of eveyone else in class as though they don't even exist. It's so embarrassing and I've been getting strange looks from the other students. Has he completely lost his mind? Doesn't he care what others may think?
Yea, I think he's definitely not right. I think you should get help. Not that you can't handle it on your own, but you're better off partnering with someone on this. A guidance counsellor? Principal or Vice Principal?
So you think he's obsessed with me too? Do you think it's just lust? I mean the way he's always concerned about my health makes me think he's got some feelings as well. Also, I don't know what he's hoping to get out of this? He knows nothing can happen between us. it's seems stupid.I'm thinking about talking to him one on one about this but I don't know how to explain things to him or to my head teacher. They'll probably be like "Oh he's just being concerned about you." I mean he hasn't actually done anything inappropriate. How can I handle this on my own?
Well, you could tell him no. You could make a scene so other people are aware of what's happening and how you feel about it.
Say no to what?
Tell him no... don't ask me personal questions like that anymore
I've already tried being rude and dismissive like that. He didn't stop.
I've even pretended like he doesn't even exist.
I'd ask for help then. Put an end to this
So what should I do? I already told you it's not like he's done anything inappropriate. The only option I have is talking to him one on one. But even that will not work I think. He'll never admit what his intentions are.
He doesn't have to admit. The things he has said in front of other people are not school related and inappropriate.
No I meant he'll pretend like he has no ulterior motives. He'll probably act all innocent and say that all he's doing is being concerned about me.
If other people have witnessed him doing this it's not that you have to prove him guilty; has to prove himself innocent.
Ok so today I had a class with him. He didn't pester me about my health but he did give me lots of extra attention. Also, I injured my finger while I was in the washroom and he was sitting with my head teacher, he saw me tending to my hand and immediately asked me what's wrong. He told me to wash my hand and my head teacher told me she'll get a bandage for me. She asked me to wait in the class. So after a while, you know who bought the bandage for me? My teacher. He gave it to me in class in front of everyone. I think he's beginning to fall for me or something. I'm getting concerned. But what can I complain about now? He's not pestering me about my health anymore (I guess he realized it was getting too much) and I already made it clear in my last class that I'll only attend the next class when I'm healthy.
This dude's quite cringy
That's an understatement.
I got really afraid you know I thought he'd apply the bandage on my hand himself... I guess he'd want to as well..
Also, he did stare at me a lot today...
Kinda looked high or something... he was staring so intensely
I really think you should get help and deal with this once and for all
But what should I do? Like I said he's stopped pestering me about my health.
But you still feel u comfortable. You shouldn't feel like this. Now you're rationalizing his negative behaviour... that's no good
I'm not rationalizing his negative behaviour. I just think he's not a perverted freak though I could be wrong. I do think this is totally inappropriate but then you can't control how you feel. I think he's having difficulties with hiding his emotions. Also, what exactly should I tell my head teacher now?
Tell them what's been happening and how you feel
Have an opinion?
That sounds creepy to me.
Can you ask a friend to tag along so next time he can't speak one on one with you? If he insists he needs the one on one time, tell someone else about it because that isn't normal.
He talks to me one on one in class itself. Actually, he's gone mad these days. He's talking about personal things with me in front of everyone in class as though they don't exist.
Maybe in love with you
Thats weird af
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