They do it because it works, and because women let them.To understand WHY, you have to back up a bit.Most women want RELATIONSHIPS, and relationships are their top priority and prime focus. THIS IS *NOT* TRUE OF MOST MEN!!!Men want SEX - and for most men, relationships are a much lower priority. Men also don't just want sex with women they're in love with - they want sex with EVERY woman he finds attractive, even if he doesn't expect that to happen. So, essentially, men spend far more time looking for CASUAL SEX than for relationships, while women are looking for relationships and not casual sex.Because the vast majority of men can't get anywhere close to the amount of casual sex they want, some decide that they can sacrifice honesty in order to get some sex. They'll find a girl who seems to have some feelings for him, and play up those feelings in order to get sex. Usually, the girl knows the guy isn't REALLY into having a relationship with her (or she SHOULD know better), but she likes him and she WANTS to believe he wants a relationship with her, so she'll deceive herself into believing it - and usually ends up with her feelings hurt when he gets sex and moves on.But most women just cannot grasp the idea that men want something DIFFERENT from what she wants. Yes, REALLY! Women are always asking "does he like me?" - which to her means "in a romantic way" because that's what she wants - but his interest is USUALLY just SEXUAL - he wants to get laid and finds her physically attractive. Just because a guy wants to bang you does NOT mean he has romantic feelings for you, though, and you need to learn that lesson well.The best way for a girl to protect her heart is to move more slowly. Not SUPER slow, but make the guy wait a little while and prove his interest - and to be honest with him about what she's looking for.If a guy says "I'm not looking for anything serious" or "I'm not ready for a relationship right now", he's saying "all I want is casual sex." Women hear "if we hang out more, I'll want a relationship with you eventually" even though that's NOT at all what he said.
To show off to their friends, in my experience. Like this one guy used to hug me, flirt with me and be really sweet when it was just the two of us. As soon as his friends came along he would act like a completely different person.
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It can’t become one if there isn’t pain... jk that was morbid... I don't know I’m bored.
The guys who are not ready for a mature long-term honest committed relationship do this however the right ones do not so look for the right ones
I will answer this question when the question of "why do girls play with guys hearts" is answered.
Women will always rule there own world. That's why I love all women... Real talk...
You don't need to know why. You just need to know that they do.
Cuz some of them are children not men. Same goes to some women
Women do the same thing so don’t be a hypocrite
I'm just asking
Same reason women do it.
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