Most Helpful Guys
Because we want you to show interest, but not aggressively so. Imagine you went to sell something online. You had a few potential buyers call. You know there is interest in what you are selling. Now you want a buyer to call you once and ask a few solid questions, then you know they are genuinely interested. But if you get a caller who calls you thirty five times in ten minutes and asks you a hundred questions, you get annoyed and pass on their offer and look at other buyers. Same applies to flirting. You have to show a couple decent flirts to show you are interested, but leave it at that. Like smile, hold eye contact slightly longer than you normally would with a typical stranger, and maybe approach for a light conversation of small talk. Then leave and make him want to pursue you after that.
This way you have him signals, but not enough to turn him away. But enough to get his attention and make him want you1
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It isn't true that guys always run away when a girl shows interest. It is true that he would have to be interested in her too. That's the same risk that guys take when we show or declare interest in a girl. We take the risk that she isn't interested. What guys are saying is that girls should occasionally step up and take that risk too.0
Most Helpful Girl
girls do the same to guys. unless they are interested. if someone is not interested they get annoyed. i think its dumb bc someone is interested you should be flattered either way. anyhow, thats not bc you are a girl its bc you are a girl they do not lie.
guys DO like getting approached. people like people approaching them-if they are interested.
any guy who says no he does not like it is just lying or crazy. if a girl he really liked asked him out, he's not going to say no. unless he is crazy.2