I have been on and off in contact, hooking up, with a guy for almost 6 years now. It always comes down to me confessing how I feel and him saying it is never going to happen. Some time goes by and one of us eventually hits up the other. Well it began again and a year later I told him I loved him. He said he just isn't a relationship guy and likes to be by himself. I said okay and that we probably shouldn't talk anymore. Then a week later I was missing him so I sent him a message saying fuck what I said. He told me to take some time. I knew he was right so I decided to take some time. He let some time go by before hitting me up not even two weeks later. And he was drunk. He said he cares about me and wants me and yada yada. Yet sober he wants to be alone but continues to message me. So if he doesn't feel the same or at least like me then why won't he let me go?