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I've never approached a girl. If I were to do it and she runs away, I would think she's not interested or has very bad thoughts about me.
But whats the reason that you dont approach girls? You're not into dating?
I was too shy and never learned to approach. I was the "Nice Guy" type. I'm glad I didn't so everything turned out fine.
I look at her as though i forgot my phone and play it off and just retreat as i didn't want to approuch her in the first place. Hahaha.
Lol, that's what I do
But will you give it another try, approach in a different way or just move on?
I am a super shy guy, and I have never approached a girlBut if I did, I would think she is not interested by the way are you the shy girl? Have it happened to you?
Yes, im a shy girl and it has ever happened to me. The thing is the guy is not a shy guy but he's very shy with approaching girls that he likes. He misunderstood my shyness for coldness. But this happens cos he tried to approach me when a lot of people are watching which makes me uncomfortable. If nt, I might nt have done that. His very insecure and overthinks which makes things worse.
Do you have crush on him?
I do not avoid if someone approaches me on his own or he approaches me in a relax manner. The guy has never took the initiative to talk / approach me on his own and he knows very well that I'm a shy person.
You both are shy so maybe try giving him signs that you are interested in himWhat do you think?
Hahah yes, I ended having a crush on him. It was difficult to determine at first cos i didn't know him that well. But i got to know him through observation and kind of like what I see. As in him being himself, seeing his actual strength and weaknesses.
Does he know you like him?
Yes he knows, but he has no courage to express his interest directly. It kind of went negatively cos of his overthinking and kind of end up framing me. He did not apologise but i guess he just dont have the courage to admit it.
Maybe try taking help of your friends
Like taking help of them to tell him about how you feel
I'm currently not too sure if I really want this anymore. Firstly, he framed and did not even apologise and secondly, we come from diff culture which makes it hard for us to be together. The second reason was the main reason that made us difficult to be together.
Why have you not tried approaching before? Not into dating?
It's not that I won't like to date anyone... But you know, I freeze whenever I talk to girl and I don't know what to say. So I thought it would be better not to approach. But yeah it would be nice to date someone.
I would try to approach her a few times but if she keeps running away I would get the feeling that i disgust or put her off. Hence i would stop approaching her and feel a bit bad about the whole thing.
I figure out this is probably not gonna work between us.
I'd probably move on unless she shows clear signs she's interested.
Frustration! I'll try again if I really like her or she gives me a clear high sign later on.
Are you a shy guy or extrovert?
I'm both. My Meyers Briggs type is ambivert. I'm extroverted when it comes to ordinary friendships, but painfully shy in the romance department. So shy, in fact, that a woman recently asked me out by saying "Damn, I wish I could meet a guy who is, X, Y, Z, etc. (Inserting a list that unmistakably described me) Do you have any idea where I might find such a desirable man?"
Always wondered why shy girls do this
You have experienced it before? What did she do?
Saw me coming towards her, I wasn't approaching her tbh, she was just in my way and talking to her friends. She was taking quick glances at me when I was at a distance and well, when she found out that I was near her, she looked blank at me and then shooked off her head in the opposite side.
Yup she's definitely a shy person. She just dont know how to react.
But she does know how to make the situation awkward. I know it too tbh lol
Maybe just try talking to her more in a relax manner or any way that she's comfortable in communicating with you.
Now I can never see her, she is a pass out and I wasn't that interested in her.Thanks anyways.
Keep trying women play aHard to get all the time.
Well damn it, I really DO suck at people!
I just chase her down and corner her...
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