All I'm asking is to have a couple drinks with me while I'm in town, but he days he says he's not drinking to lose weight, but it's only for one night. He said he will drink on occasion, and j said why can't that occasion be with me since I'm in town? He's very stubborn and I feel like the only reason he refuses to drink is that I want him to. An I wrong here? He's not an alcoholic or anything its not even a big deal. It's annoying cause it's always all about him and what he wants to do and so this upsets me.