Most Helpful Guys
Honestly from my experience on Instagram all it is for is memes, pictures of animals and pictures of half naked women. That's it. Just because he is looking at and saving pictures doesn't mean anything. He's with you and that's what matters. Now if he is messaging these girls and stuff that can be a big issue. Honestly ask him why to see what he says. Also tell him you want him to post more pics on there especially of you two together, that shouldn't be that big of a request and he should easily oblige. If he refuses then odds are something is up and you should be more worried.1
I said yes.
One because it's a dick thing to do when in a relationship. I like beautiful women as much as the next heterosexual male. But, I'm not going to seek out photo's of them on the internet, and save them. That's just wrong.
Two, because you are being affected by it. You should not be uncomfortable in a relationship. You have every right to bring it up.
Hope everything works out. Wish you the best.8
Most Helpful Girls
My ex used to do things like this, I felt extremely insecure the whole time. I think you need to talk to him about this. If someone calls you insecure, and tells you that you are overreacting, ignore them. This issue may not bother them, but it bothers YOU (and that is all that matters). If he doesn’t stop, or you two can’t find a compromise, I’d suggest dating someone else. Be with a man who doesn’t have time for these activities (my new boyfriend never does anything like this, and I’ve never felt more secure or trusting of a man).
I think you need to talk to him. But, don’t accuse him of anything - just talk :)3
No, the relationship is about the time you spend together, not his Instagram account. A lot of people like to look up hot pics or videos online, that isn't cheating.3