How to encourage shy guys to approach?


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Most Helpful Guys

  • You can do the approaching. Ask for directions or have him explain some mechanical thing. Any excuse, just meet him. And, be sure to touch his arm at some point in the proceedings.

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  • You'll need to indicate to him more obviously and more intensely that you want him to approach are approachable/friendly, and even then you'll usually get better results by approaching him first with a big smile on your face and asking him how he is doing. Make sure he sees you looking at him and smiling- he needs to feel confident that he won't get rejected if he approaches and he will usually have to work up some courage to do it.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • You should approach him if he's too shy to do it. I think it's pointless to wait until he gathers the courage. You'll probably wait a long time... or eternally.

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  • smile, look at him, try to be closer physically to him. Wear something interesting, like a white shirt with paint marks. Maybe he's into art too and he will try to strike up a convo. Act like he's an old friend you haven't seen in a while and be open. Hope this helps.

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  • Exchange phone numbers and tell him you would really like to meet up for coffee sometime. If two weeks go by and you haven't heard from him, then initiate the call yourself.

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  • This is 2018 about time you guys start doing picking up if you're attracted to him go talk to him

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  • Some of us may not muster the courage if it's an off day or we are too introverted. But a smile and a simple "come here" gesture with a finger should do it without breaking norms too much.

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  • Smile. Also, feel free to get off of that high horse and go and initiate the conversation yourself.

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  • Try cat calling.

    Be like "hey sweet cheeks do fries come with that shake?"

    I guarantee you any man you desire will be yours.

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  • approach him amd make a big hint not like small shit hunt but one big ass that can't be missed

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  • Approach him yourself, there is nothing wrong with a woman who approaches in today's society.

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  • Just approach him yourself. Doesn't get more encouraging than that.

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What Girls Said 1

  • Approach him yourself...

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