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First off this is half right. Why? Cause you dont know all the billions if guys to say this only the ones you see with your own eyes see or on the internet.
Now im saying guys are not as you claim. Cause we are. But dont pretend for a second women dont like it or puts up with it for sake of acceptance and spontaneity. Women know this dude is player, asshole, jerk, no job, talks to a lot of women, and play games but she goes out with him anyway. Why?
Whst is happening the nice guys see seen as wimps but reality we just want treat women with respect but are labeled as entitled or doormat.
Why is it guys do this? There past, upbringing and personality plays a roll. And some women help shape that.
It really depends on the people you are around I suppose.
I've been a "home service" worker in one way or another for the last 14 years, and I've spent a LOT of time in other people's homes doing work and overhearing conversations, and depending where you are, those conversations are very, VERY different, which is a reflection of the cultural and moral differences that exist.
If you live in an area where "trailer trash" or "ghetto" culture is the predominant culture, then what you've written is largely true. If you live in middle-class or upper-class areas, then it mostly isn't true (with fairly rare exceptions).
The part about "mentally undressing" women is fairly universal (men do this with women they see and find attractive) - but that is THOUGHT - all of the other stuff you're talking about is BEHAVIOR, and it's largely lower-class behavior - which tends to be extremely self-centered and in-the-moment - almost completely ignoring any long-term consequences. And sadly, HipHop has embraced and even promoted this culture and lack of morals, yes - but the culture pre-dated the music.
Still, it's less male-specific and more class-specific - women from those cultures do plenty of things that are equally vile and morally empty. You shouldn't base how you see an entire gender on the morals and behaviors of a specific and limited portion of it.
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