Why is it ok for them to make me sooooo uncomfortable and be so aggressive? I'm not rude when I reject them, I just say something like "Thank you for taking an interest in me, but I'm sorry, I'm not looking for a relationship right now". I always dread saying it and get scared when they even approach me because It makes me have anxiety that they're going to be the way that I described. I would say that probably 5 out of every 10 black guys that hit on me do this to me.
Why is it ok for them, or anyone, to do things like that? I feel like I have to go anonymous because I think people would call me racist for asking this but I mean it's only black guys that do it. I'm not a racist person. I think everyone should be treated equally regardless of race, sexual preference and gender.
Please let me know your thoughts on this and if you do it to women or if you're a woman and you've experienced it.
Most Helpful Guys
Because they know a black woman wouldn't put up with that imitation shit. So they figured scare a white girl into dating a black man. They believe fear is a way to attract attention. And forcing their will on white women. When they realize fear and
Intimidation don't work they become aggressive towards women of color
They’re butthurt that they can’t get the pleasure of feeling empowered by having a white woman let them fuck them.
It might sound racist but it’s the truth. Black men get an ego trip by fucking white women. Especially these days. They just think
“Yaah, no white boy can please her like I can” when it’s funny cause I’ve asked several women that have slept with black guys and or multiple ethnicities if the stereotype that black guys are hung like horses, is true and they pretty much all said it’s not.
Most Helpful Girl
Because their pride is hurt and they are not mature enough to handle a blow to the ego so they lash out. They probably assume you're racist. It's their problem not yours. Don't try and figure out why just be you and let them be then. Move on knowing you are obviously the better person in the situation.