Is it okay for my brother to stare at my boobs when I'm topless?

I've always found bras to be quite uncomfortable, and usually go topless once I'm home. However, I started noticing that my brother started looking at my boobs when he thought I wasn't looking. He's only doing this after he turned fourteen. Is that weird, or are all boobs the same to him, and he's just happy that he's able see some?

Should I wear shirts more? Should I tell him to stop? Or should I not worry, as long as he doesn't touch them?
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  • Just imagine he is naked in house with u. I guess he is 14. So it would be awkward. And guys are attracted to boob's naturally. He is hot attracted to u. But he is just discovering them. He will start noticing that his dick stands. He will also start masturbating

    • Will he be masturbating to my boobs?

    • He just thinks of boob's. It's not like my sister boob's. But definitely he would have masturbated or will be masturbating soon. He must have already started watching porn. It's natural.

    • Why are you topless in front of your brother?

  • You go topless in your house and you have a brother?

    I'm more shocked that your parents are OK with it since they know it's really inappropriate for a girl to show off her body if there's boys around

    • Well he didn't really notice until recently.

    • Well he's a boy and boys are attracted to the female body Even tho he's your brother but he's a boy in the end and he can't help it and we'll continue to stare at them This is making sexual aroused and therefore it's inappropriate especially since you're his own sister I would say you must put some clothes on

    • Cover up of course He's probably feeling guilty about getting aroused from seeing his own sister naked How old are you again?

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  • He probably doesn't even want to stare, he just can't help it at his age, like a compulsion, and he might sit for minutes at a time unable to get the picture out of his head. Don't say anything of it, it's just up to you to be more careful and modest around him.

  • I find that really weird. I’d be uncomfortable with that

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  • You should wear a shirt. It's not appropriate

    • Good idea. It was a habit I started before my boobs filled in, and I just got used to it.

  • It is very strange (that he looks but also you're topless around him). Wear shirts but you don't have to wear a bra, that's what I do

  • Completely normal. I dream of fucking my sister every day.

    • Oh...

    • Lmaoooo the Asker "Oh..." I'd fucking be the same way xD

    • Do most guys dream about doing their sisters, or is it just you?

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  • And this is the beginning of when Jaime and Cersei Lannister started to incest..

    Is it okay for my brother to stare at my boobs when I'm topless?
  • Fucking trolls.

    • Update: I'd tell her to quit lying.

  • At his age i think he just wants to see them whenever he can and whoever they belong to

  • It's weird you are walking around top less. Chat me

  • It's fine.

  • Its his age, he will get such thoughts.
    You shld educate him, if left could become bad or good.

    • I would want her to talk.

  • Nope that is just weird
    Look you should cover your private parts no matter what only your partner should see them

  • You are WEIRD, why would you be toples when your sibling is around?

  • May I tell you in private through messaging.

    • I can definitely relate to your question.

    • You stare are your underage sister's breasts?

    • No, my older sisters when I was 14 years old. She was 22.

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  • Is he your older or younger brother?

    • Oh he's 14? So I'm assuming he's younger, but his hormones are going crazy at that point. As long as he does not touch you, comment on it, or actively make you feel uncomfortable, it shouldn't be a problem. If you are top less, you are leaving your chest open to the eyes of everyone around you, and if you aren't comfortable with that, then the only way you'll be emotionally comfortable is if you cover up your chest. If you prefer physical comfort over emotional comfort, then you should be fine overall. As long as he isn't disrespectful to your space and keeps doesn't express any concern, it should be fine.

  • Yes...

  • What do your boobs look like? ... I mean whatever you are comfortable with

    • I mean I like boobs, but I wouldn't want to see my sisters... unless she was really hot?

  • at that age his hormones are in overdrive. so it doesn't matter that your his sister he just likes boobs. you should wear a shirt around the house it would be less awkward for everyone

  • Go topless any time you want. If your brother or any other guy stares at you, it means you have a set of great looking boobs. No big deal. Take the staring as a compliment.

  • I think he has turned a teenager and at that stage it is common to have such feelings.
    So he is just happy that he is able to see some and you didn't need to worry unless he touches your boobs. Aftr all he is your brother and is a teenager.

    • I think you would also stare at your brother if he goes bottomless in front of you if you're in your teenage

  • You’re gross. Why would you do that in front of him

  • Guys are visual and he's just curious that's all. After a while if you keep doing it, it will probably just become "normal" to him and he won't give it a second thought, but it's just curiosity. But if it's bothering you or making you uncomfortable, then cover up or say something to him, but you don't have anything to worry about. He's just looking.

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