Is it okay for my brother to stare at my boobs when I'm topless?

[Anonymous]

I've always found bras to be quite uncomfortable, and usually go topless once I'm home. However, I started noticing that my brother started looking at my boobs when he thought I wasn't looking. He's only doing this after he turned fourteen. Is that weird, or are all boobs the same to him, and he's just happy that he's able see some?

Should I wear shirts more? Should I tell him to stop? Or should I not worry, as long as he doesn't touch them?

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+1 y

If you had a sister, what would you want her to do?

[michaelbernad001]

Just imagine he is naked in house with u. I guess he is 14. So it would be awkward. And guys are attracted to boob's naturally. He is hot attracted to u. But he is just discovering them. He will start noticing that his dick stands. He will also start masturbating

[Asker]

Will he be masturbating to my boobs?

[michaelbernad001]

He just thinks of boob's. It's not like my sister boob's. But definitely he would have masturbated or will be masturbating soon. He must have already started watching porn. It's natural.

[ZestyWatermelon]

Why are you topless in front of your brother?

[_dardorsama_]

You go topless in your house and you have a brother?

I'm more shocked that your parents are OK with it since they know it's really inappropriate for a girl to show off her body if there's boys around

[Asker]

Well he didn't really notice until recently.

[_dardorsama_]

Well he's a boy and boys are attracted to the female body

Even tho he's your brother but he's a boy in the end and he can't help it and we'll continue to stare at them

This is making sexual aroused and therefore it's inappropriate especially since you're his own sister

I would say you must put some clothes on

[_dardorsama_]

Cover up of course

He's probably feeling guilty about getting aroused from seeing his own sister naked

How old are you again?

[Asker]

I'm 16.

[_dardorsama_]

I see... well obviously he started staring when you turn 14 because they just became big enough to be noticed

What's your parents thoughts about this?

[ChloeInABun]

How do you know he never noticed though?

[_dardorsama_]

Because boys don't notice flat girly chest

And why are avoiding my question? can you tell what your parents think about you being topless in front of your own brother?

[_dardorsama_]

Wait... are fully clothed when your parents are around and just go topless when they're gone?

[ChloeInABun]

He probably doesn't even want to stare, he just can't help it at his age, like a compulsion, and he might sit for minutes at a time unable to get the picture out of his head. Don't say anything of it, it's just up to you to be more careful and modest around him.

[SammieWinchester]

I find that really weird. I’d be uncomfortable with that

[Anonymous]

Guys are visual and he's just curious that's all. After a while if you keep doing it, it will probably just become "normal" to him and he won't give it a second thought, but it's just curiosity. But if it's bothering you or making you uncomfortable, then cover up or say something to him, but you don't have anything to worry about. He's just looking.

[AaronKrieger]

And this is the beginning of when Jaime and Cersei Lannister started to incest..

[hockeyboi]

It's weird you are walking around top less. Chat me

[elizamichale2]

At his age i think he just wants to see them whenever he can and whoever they belong to

[Anonymous]

I think he has turned a teenager and at that stage it is common to have such feelings.
So he is just happy that he is able to see some and you didn't need to worry unless he touches your boobs. Aftr all he is your brother and is a teenager.

[Opinion Owner]

I think you would also stare at your brother if he goes bottomless in front of you if you're in your teenage

[AbdKilani]

Nope that is just weird
Look you should cover your private parts no matter what only your partner should see them

[Rick912]

Go topless any time you want. If your brother or any other guy stares at you, it means you have a set of great looking boobs. No big deal. Take the staring as a compliment.

[jakeofalltrades]

at that age his hormones are in overdrive. so it doesn't matter that your his sister he just likes boobs. you should wear a shirt around the house it would be less awkward for everyone

[Anujshah98]

You are WEIRD, why would you be toples when your sibling is around?

[ROCKS128]

Its his age, he will get such thoughts.
You shld educate him, if left could become bad or good.

[ROCKS128]

I would want her to talk.

[sophiarw5]

It is very strange (that he looks but also you're topless around him). Wear shirts but you don't have to wear a bra, that's what I do

[FunnyFacts]

What do your boobs look like? ... I mean whatever you are comfortable with

[FunnyFacts]

I mean I like boobs, but I wouldn't want to see my sisters... unless she was really hot?

[Anonymous]

You’re gross. Why would you do that in front of him

[gio_isaac]

Completely normal. I dream of fucking my sister every day.

[Asker]

Oh...

[ausmaster]

Lmaoooo the Asker
"Oh..."
I'd fucking be the same way xD

[Asker]

Do most guys dream about doing their sisters, or is it just you?

[ausmaster]

What, no not me. I was just referring that I would react the same way you would to that comment xD

[ausmaster]

If my sister was around the same age... meh? Probably not. I do not in a million years, think about having sex with my brother. Oh hell the fuck no lol.

[nofunkgiven]

You should wear a shirt. It's not appropriate

[Asker]

Good idea. It was a habit I started before my boobs filled in, and I just got used to it.

[Anonymous]

It's completely fine... it just means he's a normal heterosexual male.

[Asker]

Does that mean he's attracted to me? Is it normal for brothers to be attracted to their sister's boobs?

[Opinion Owner]

He's not attracted to you, it's just that guys, especially teenage guys, love boobies.

[SketchForger]

Is he your older or younger brother?

[SketchForger]

Oh he's 14?

So I'm assuming he's younger, but his hormones are going crazy at that point.

As long as he does not touch you, comment on it, or actively make you feel uncomfortable, it shouldn't be a problem.

If you are top less, you are leaving your chest open to the eyes of everyone around you, and if you aren't comfortable with that, then the only way you'll be emotionally comfortable is if you cover up your chest.

If you prefer physical comfort over emotional comfort, then you should be fine overall. As long as he isn't disrespectful to your space and keeps doesn't express any concern, it should be fine.

[Swimmerdude2013]

May I tell you in private through messaging.

[Swimmerdude2013]

I can definitely relate to your question.

[Kkaos]

You stare are your underage sister's breasts?

[Swimmerdude2013]

No, my older sisters when I was 14 years old. She was 22.

[Swimmerdude2013]

Sister*

[Swimmerdude2013]

At that age I found boobs fascinating. Even guys my age when I was 14 started at other girls boobs.

[Golden-Thread]

Yes...

[Golden-Thread]

https://youtu.be/Umgy765J_K8

[jimyee]

Fucking trolls.

[jimyee]

Update:
I'd tell her to quit lying.