Why are some men controlling?

Like they’ll say you can’t chat to other guys, but they can chat to other women and not think about your feelings kinda control

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  • It's in our genes and it's not controlling, a wife shall obey her husband cause he's her everything, he loves you, take good care of you, always there for you, makes you happy ans provide for you, why wouldn't you listen to him?

    Personally i won't tell her to do something that i'm not able to do in the 1st place...

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    • Well that’s out of context for me because me and him ain’t serious and official he hardly talks to me and we’ve never been out in public properly we was just pointless really but he got all serious with other men tho so trying to control me and my feelings so I couldn’t see anyone else but he could see other women and take them out...

    • He shouldn't be seeing anyone else other then you, such guy doesn't deserve you...

      If your his only love, he will treat you like this...

  • They're insecure, basically. They fear other guys, that they can take you away. They also fear you having control. They believe that they can only keep you by keeping you prisoner. Perhaps they dealt with loss as children, who knows. Many such guys have a deep seated resentment towards women.

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  • My ex used to make me block male friend's I have known for years before him/ I couldn't sit in my male co worker's brand new BMW/ I had to answer texts or calls in front of him
    He broke up with me then less than a week later he was sleeping with his female friend while I was begging him to come back.

    Moral of the story: Don't take that insecure shit! Unless you are also controlling then it evens out!

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What Guys Said 11

  • Sometimes I just feel bad how he treats you. I'm sorry but that guy is a mere douche. He's being insecure and possessive over you but doesn't take your responaibilities. He uses you for sex but never takes you out. He roams with girls like a king but doesn't let you interact with other guys.

    He's just AFRAID that you'll find a much better guy than him who will probably treat you the way you should be and you'll leave him because of that while he'll die without sex.

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  • Yeah that isn't ok.

    You either both don't do that or you both can do that.

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  • Mainly insecurity they feel in the back of their minds that they rnt good enough for u and r worried that ul find someone to replace them quickly if u go and talk to other guys

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  • Men who are controlling are insecure about themselves. This is the case when they are controlling towards women or other men.

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  • Massive insecurity and an overly indulged sense of entitlement.

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  • They're insecure.
    more commonly known as small dick syndrome

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  • For the same reasons why some women are manipulative, perhaps most

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  • What kind of man would let his girl chat with other guys?

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    • But he chats to other women and we ain’t official I mean he doesn’t treat me right

  • Controlling men tend to be very insecure men.

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  • Leave him then

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  • Because women allow it

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What Girls Said 4

  • Some can be like that, my daughter met someone like that

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  • because they're immature and not really worth it.

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  • because that's how they are

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  • Because so many men are fucking insecure assholes. That's all there is to it.

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