Most Helpful Girl
He has some valid points. Yes there are guys who will approach everyone and there are guys who will never approach, and then the majority of guys are waiting for the right moment. Yes women should give guys a chance for that right moment if they like a guy
The problem with his thinking is that he sees it from a man's perspective. Most women don't know if they want to give a guy the right moment until she feels ready to date him. Therefore a man still needs to advertise his intentions when he first meets her. Also women don't like it when guys act like just friends, but then try to make a move if there's nothing romantic there for her
But I would split this middle group into a sliding scale of how likely the average guy is to approach a stranger vs only a girl he already cares about. Many average guys will approach girls in social gatherings to be polite and speak cordially with the hope that something could happen while many average guys will dwell on a completely platonic friendship for years before making their move. This would include guys who aren't players but are very willing to approach girls and guys who may only ask out one girl in their lives, but that one time keeps them from being an incel
Of course this scale won't affect compatibility, chemistry, or attraction. Women like to see some potential of compatibility, chemistry, or attraction before giving a guy a chance. But I do agree with him that women should give men more opportunities to make a move if she is interested in him
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Most Helpful Guy
Hilarious and accurate.