Is It Ok For A Guy In A Relationship To Check Out Other Girls? Explain Why Or Why Not?

Is it normal for y’all hoes excuse me I mean guys to look at other girls while in a relationship?Is It Ok For A Guy In A Relationship To Check Out Other Girls? Explain Why Or Why Not?
  • No it’s not ok
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  • Yes it is ok
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Most of you guys are saying yes but y’all claim y’all are so visual so wtf is going on? 🤔

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  • For me no, your focus should be only on your girl /boy

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  • I don't think a guy should be checking out other girls if he is in a serious relationship. The whole point of a relationship is that you are committed to someone. If you see another girl who you think is very attractive, I don't think there's anything wrong if you appreciate her beauty. But if you go so far as to check her out and fantasize about her, that is pretty much the same thing as cheating.

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  • Honestly, it’s not okay. Guys cheat more than girls, so girls are constantly trying to please guys so they won’t want to cheat. By them checking out other girls makes it not okay at all. especially if it’s noticeable. men are constantly complaining about how women cheat and how they are “hoes” but most of us don’t cheat and are loyal. all a girl wants, is to be yours;to know that you don’t even pay attention to other girls because you are so in love with her. for you to make her feel like she’s your world. that’s all a woman wants and you can do that by respecting her enough to not look at other woman. at least that’s my opinion.

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  • I chose "no" but I guess it's natural to check out attractive people, BUT it's unacceptable to make it obvious in front of your partner. (Although I think it's rude to blatantly stare, regardless)

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What Guys Said 27

  • In a perfect world the answer is no, it's not ok, yet I voted yes. Why? I voted yes because I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend since the summer before high school started. I'm now a sophomore in college and still with the same girl. Anyways to get to the point this was basically the exact question I always phrased in my mind, but vice versa and I NEVER asked. I always wondered why she would give a random passerby a sidelong glance or comment and post about what celebrities she thought were "To die for" and still NEVER asked. Point being this went on for about two years, and my jealousy grew, and eventually I snapped and I asked her what it was all about. Her response echoes in my ears to this day. "It's natural to look, It's okay to look, maybe even okay to comment if appropriate, but it's NEVER okay to cheat." To pretend that you do not EVER look at another person when your significant other is not around or even while they are and think "that person is kind of cute" or "Wow. His/Her eyes are really striking." Is a completely outrageous statement and extreme hypocrisy. Both genders look at the opposite gender and can have fleeting, fanciful, HARMLESS thoughts about the other and it be perfectly fine.

    P. S. What isn't fine though is the phrasing of this question in the first place and the sexist overtones of it. I'd consider rewording it in the future

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    • Are you one of those guys who claims that males are visual?

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    • Y’all don’t it’s not ignorant it’s the truth. Also yea a lot of y’all are hoes so what you want me to sugar coat or something?

    • Do you consider yourself a feminist? Can you please answer my last question?

  • Just because you drive a lambo, doesn't mean you can't admire a Porsche.

    Being with a female who you love and cherish doesn't make all other women invisible. Admiring beautiful things is a simple human thing. Women admire other attractive women, they admire and check out attractive men... being human isn't wrong and women trying to villainize a natural and unstoppable human thing is simply ignorant.

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    • Are we cars? Also sure but that staring crap is doing too much plus y’all claim y’all are so visual so y’all are obviously having dirty thoughts.

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    • Yea that has nothing to do with this. Plus I never said that statement. Now you are just being ignorant

    • Ignorant guy

  • More accurately: is it ok for a girl in a relationship to control a guy to the level where she won't allow him to benignly look at other women?

    The answer is absolutely not ok for her to do that. It's called narcissism.

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  • I can look wherever I want. I’m not staring at girls tits while I’m out with my fiancé on a date. There’s a mutual respect. I do have eyes recognize attractive people though.

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  • It’s completely fine, if you don’t like what he’s doing then don’t be with him. It’s instinct to look at aesthetically pleasing things and unless they act on it they’re not doing anything wrong.

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    • No if they are staring that is doing too much plus like I said you guys claim y’all are completely visual so something is not making sense

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    • Well that’s what you guys say and yea something is wrong with it

    • What’s the point of getting opinions about it if you’re so set about what you think? To change others minds about it as well?

  • We have eyes and we use them. However, staring or blatantly checking out someone is plain rude in my opinion.

    I don't check out other girls because most of the time I'm minding my business, but sometimes my girlfriend checks out other guys and girls and points them out to me.

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  • Duh , Yeah because these girls are looking at girls too
    But for real yeah its normal its natural to look what woman are better to reproduce with

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    • No you are making it slutty

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    • If you are looking at other women to see who is better to fuck then you are a hoe

    • No i never said to fuck you just thinking about the sexual way to just have pleasure, open ur mind and actually think about the reson that we keep on having new generation and look at everyone some people are happier then other, what im saying makes no sense but idc

  • Simply look? Yes. I can look at a slice of pizza, doesn't mean I want to eat it. I can literally look and then never think of it again. However, if it stays in my mind, if I can't stop thinking about that slice of pizza, if I fantasize about that slice of pizza, then it becomes a problem.

    Same basic concept. It is possible to look at a woman, just look, and then look away. The only way to avoid that is losing our sight.

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  • I personally don't believe it's okay. Yes, we can be attracted to others, but when in a relationship, you're supposed to make a conscious effort to make your partner feel more comfortable, so I definitely would not when with them. However, if I'm out with guy friends, I let loose and rate whoever, but that's just for fun. I'm an extremely loyal person that would never cheat. It would make me feel like a scumbag and a hypocrite.

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  • First of all, it is a bad approach to insult the people you ask a question.

    It is common, and I do not see a problem in looking at other women while in a relationship. Women also look at handsome men. I would go as far as calling it a natural reaction. We are merely animals and some of the primal instincts still linger, so when we (men and women) see someone that we find attractive, the urge to mate kicks in, and we take an extra peek.
    People have different definitions of cheating, but if looking is all that happens, I will not call it cheating.

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    • Well what are y’all gonna do about it? Lmao nothing and it is true a lot of you are hoes. Also yea sure just have that same mindset when your girl is staring at some guys junk in sweatpants

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    • I do, have you cheated before?

    • That depends on your definition of cheating, but I would say no.
      I have - with my partner's consent - acted flirtatiously towards other women, but I have never kissed, touched (inappropriately) or had sex with women outside of my relationships.

  • Everybody looks you can't stop anybody from looking as long as you don't do anything about it the guy that looks. But when new to the relationship its disrespectful to look

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  • Just because a guy can be really visual doesn’t mean he’ll just gawk at every girl he sees especially if he’s with his girl

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    • No if y’all are so visual then y’all are thinking of the girls inappropriately so then y’all can’t do it either way that visual crap sounds dumb and false

  • Not exactly okay but it’s a equivalent of being caught watching a big booty porn if your girl doesn’t have one.

    It strikes up the question of “what’s wrong with me?”.

    It’s not exactly cheating but it’s still not a good thing.

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  • In a way yes in a way not.

    Basically okay for looking at a girl they never ever will be with.
    Like an actor or singer.
    And some women just on the street that he has no clue who she is.

    Then it all depends on your personailty and his. Like if your okay with going to bar with other friends mixed of females and males and the males joke about this women who had massive boobs or something.
    But it was just a joke.

    But anything else no esspacilly not looking at your friends.

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    • Oh so it’s ok for them to check out another girl that they don’t know? That is basically what you are saying.

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    • So you think it’s fine for girls to do the same?

    • Yes of course double standers always.
      If men can do it so can women.

      Plus i think it would be hard to find a women who don't think some other guy is hot once in while. Could be wrong but most girls talk i've heard is always about some hot guy.

  • Its not right he is thinking of other girls when he is making love to you

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    • there's actually a lot of research saying it's okay to think of others as long as you dont wish it was that person you were actually with. It can spice up your love life a bit if you need it.

      This is just from a few articles I've read, I haven't been in my relationship long enough for our sex life to need to be spiced up in that way.

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    • Whenever I was in a relationship I never thought of a girl I just checked out. That’s ridiculous to say tbh

    • @Echavez368 Its not some guys tell me that when they are making love to there girl or wife they are thinking of other girls/woman that they see at work or outside

  • funny! yes and no, times I have and times I don't. a glance can occur, but not that picture you put up.

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  • If you think it is Ok for girls in a relationship to check out other guys, then it's Ok for guys in a relationship to check out other girls, and vice versa.

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    • No cause we don’t have the same thought process apparently y’all claim y’all are such visual beings so no it’s not the same and it wouldn’t be ok

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    • O ok. You're right. My bad. Didn't know why you asked the question if you already knew the answer.

    • You didn’t give an answer you tried to justify guys doing the same thing girls do when we are not the same

  • Yes it is very rude to the girl he is with at the moment. If he can not control his glaring, what more will he not be able to control.

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  • It’s okay to find other women attractive, but not checking them out.

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  • Why not? As I said in the other one, my ex's would be checking out the girls more than me. Mostly the boobs.

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    • Well why is it ok?

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    • Nope. Not all. Everyone is different.

    • I have to ask. Why is it ok for you to check out guys when you're with your boyfriend, but he can't check out girls?

  • It's really disrespectful to do with the main woman around, but checking out other women is unavoidable to a certain extent.

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    • No starting at her ass and boobs is always avoidable

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    • It's not your opinion that's the problem. It's your refusal budge, even slightly, when presented with another opinion. I'm not mad at you or judging you for it; but I'm simply not going to try to engage in a dialogue.

    • If you don’t want to bother explaining than that is on you but I accept opinions 👌.

  • It's normal but not ok in my opinion. Focus on your girlfriend or find another girl.

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  • To an extent yeah because Ik my ex would always mention a guys' body once in a while and I never got really jealous.

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  • its okay it just attraction and he's with you right?
    but he shouldn't make it so obvious lol

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  • some women are irresistible to not look at.

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  • Is this a joke?

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    • That catfish picture you’re using is

    • It's not catfish anything. I'm very up front to anyone who asks that this picture isn't me, just someone I look similar to.

      Not really sure what that has anything at all to do with your post here.

  • I won't check out hotties in front of her 🤣

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What Girls Said 11

  • Yeah. Everyone is gonna look when they see someone hot or attractive. That's just how life is

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    • So you would be fine with your man staring at another girl in front of you?

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    • Girl if he’s looking at her ass and boobs that is what he wants to do

    • You can looks at someone's butt or boobs and not wanna fuck them. Done it many many times

  • I think it's normal and girls do the same thing all the time. Being together with someone doesn't mean that you don't notice anyone else any more and it would be kind of silly to expect this.

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  • As long as your doing it tastefully and not in front of your significant other. The saying is "you can look but you can't touch"...

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  • Longing for the reverse question to see how guys are SO not ok for their girl to check out other guys lol.
    #Doublestandard

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  • Yes cause there human just like we are. Hell we check out girls together. I’d be more worried if he didn’t in front of me cause might make think there something going on when I’m not there.

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  • I don’t see an issue as long as looking is all they’re doing.

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  • I get jealous when my guy checks out other girls.

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  • Yes it's ok. Just not so blatant and in my face

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    • What would you do if they did it in your face?

    • Stop talking to them. Or friendzone them. And turn down their advances

    • Or do what they do and check out other dudes and even get they numbers😂😂😂😂😂 I remember my baby daddy went to the flea market together. This FINE ASS latino man start hitting on me had me blushing. I was about to get his number but then he abruptly changed his mind. I was confused and I turned around and there my baby daddy was. I don't know what he did smh cock blocker

  • Hell I point out girls to my man

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  • No because his girlfriend will be jealous.

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  • Look, just don't touch.

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