A guy called me ugly?

disclaimer I’m already feeling fragile enough right now so if your coming on here to say “well maybe you are” then just kindly leave. I was absent on Friday and my friend called me as soon as she got home from school because apparently guys were talking shit about me at lunch. My homecoming date claimed he was forced to take me and he felt bad for me because I’m “ugly as fuck” and after saying this other guys at the table began to agree. Now I know myself, I know I’m not ugly, and I feel good about my appearance as a whole I actually think I’m very attractive and others would agree because I’ve had many guys approach me ask for my number etc. I just don’t understand why these guys would say such a thing. And I’m not gonna lie it hurts really bad. I’m also wondering where do I go from here, do I confront them, do I act like the bigger person. I just don’t know I’m in tears right now thinking about this. Why are people so cruel?
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Also, the guy who said this literally approaches me on a daily basis at school and tries to start conversation

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What Guys Said 10

  • Honestly guys are so immature at that age, the “alpha” of the group might have said you are ugly, then the rest are too scared to say any different and want to fit in, most guys are like that at a young age, you are not ugly

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      Your update proves my point

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      A part of me wants him to know that I know what he said, I want him to feel guilty

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      Personally I would ignore him until he comes to you and asks why you’re ignoring him, then say it, I would say it to him in person though because he needs to learn a lesson and you’ll get to see him squirm

  • The world is full of cruelty. There could be numerous reasons why they’re saying this. One could be to break you down so he can sleep with you. However, this won’t be the last time. Even if you confront them, you won’t change their minds. So, don’t give in and be confident with who you are

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  • Words are cheep and for their opinions to matter you first have to value their opinions and from what I've seen of your profile picture and your age all I can say is your a lovely young lady

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  • Just ignore horny assholes which thinks they are models and everyone else is ugly
    You are beautiful that is it
    Dont listen to those stupid boys who watch porn and expect everygirl look like one in porns

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  • You aren't ugly. You might not have been that guy's type, and people often exaggerate to express that. Like, if you don't like a certain car then it's "shit". Really it isn't shit at all, it's just not for you

    Kids at school age have always been capable of being very cruel, because they are growing up and have very little personal responsibility. That's nothing new. They do exaggerate everything though and they do a lot of things to try and look good in front of others. So you can pretty much ignore 90% of what they say as being bravado and bullshit.

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  • They are cruel because they hate themselves. Need to bring others down to build themselves up. You are beautiful

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  • Everyone gets called ugly even if they are not. I once saw a good looking girl being made fun of for her looks.

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  • I'd talk to your home coming partner. He owes you some loyalty and an explanation.

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  • Some people just don't know how to hold in thoughts

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  • Soumds your friend was talking smack.

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What Girls Said 5

  • what the actual fuck. you aren't ugly in my opinion.
    ditch his ass too because he's a fake.
    i would be the bigger person or confront and beat his ass!!!
    jk, don't do the last part unless you a boss ass bitch

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  • It's important how you feel about yourself. You said you know you aren't ugly, that's great because considering yourself attractive is the most important thing.

    Forget about that dude and his stupid friends. Some people (especially young guys) are just plain rude and stupid + they all do it just to boost their fragile ego and confidence.

    The problem is them not you, you are faaar from being ugly.

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  • You’re beautiful and you shouldn’t care about people’s opinion, love yourself and be confident

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  • wow. i'm so sorry; kids are honestly so mean. that's terrible. it's perfectly normal to feel hurt and confused as to why people would say something like that about you if you get male attention regularly. and i think that you are lightyears ahead of everyone else: you're 15 and are SO secure with yourself. that's something people don't achieve for years.
    i don't think that approaching them about it would be beneficial. it actually may make things worse or prompt them to say it to your face or laugh. you should hold your head high. some boys tend to talk big shit when they're around each other and make it way bigger than it needs to be. they love to show off. you should keep doing you and being yourself and surround yourself with positivity. you're very pretty and you don't need some snot nosed, immature boys making you cry.

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  • Yeah, I know it feels like shit. Dudes at my school call me ugly all the damn time because bitches don't know how to keep their mouths shut about me and therefore, I get in fights that end up with me getting cuts and bruises on my face (I still look ok tho). My advice is to act like the bigger person and show them that they're wrong. They're little pussyboys who don't know how to respect a sweet person, and make up for their pathetic personalities with insults to someone beautiful. If they try to talk to you again, tell them to fuck off and choke on a dick. Good luck.

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