Guys, does female nudity and sex on TV and in movies affect the way you think about your girlfriend/wife/SO? Is female nudity even a big deal for you? (Page 2)

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So I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over four years now. We have an amazing relationship, truly, and I can't tell you how great he is. The one issue that has stood throughout our whole relationship is that I feel very insecure with him seeing sex and nudity on TV and movies.  Female nudity is literally everywhere, and I'm not a prude. I also am aware and realistic with the fact that he for sure finds other women attractive the same way I find other men attractive. That said, male nudity truly does not turn me on at all, unless it's right there in front of me with someone I love. I know men tend to be more visually stimulated however. I can't realistically assume that he doesn't get any viewing pleasure from seeing a women naked or half-naked in a TV show or movie. He may even find them more attractive than me (which is hard to swallow, but it's just a fact.) My boyfriend and I want to watch Game of Thrones, but I am sick thinking about the consistent female nudity and sex there is. I can swallow and boob-flash or 20-second sex scene. I just can't help but think though that these extensive sex scenes are just getting him off and that he could be dissatisfied with me or something. We have had a mature, open conversation about it where I expressed that I want to watch the show but am very uncomfortable and jealous of all the nudity and the possibility he's just going to be aroused the whole time by other women. I know it is so natural, but it does hurt to think about. He says that no matter what he sees, whether he finds it hot or not, it just isn't a big deal to him and that at the end of the day the person he finds most sexy and attractive is me [especially] because we have an amazing relationship. I believe and trust him, but I still feel so insecure and uncomfortable about it. Do I need to be worried or feel threatened? Is this how most of you guys feel too?  Apologies for the terribly long post!

CoffeeWC · Answer

Probably in some way or another.

Guys, does female nudity and sex on TV and in movies affect the way you think about your girlfriend/wife/SO? Is female nudity even a big deal for you? (Page 2)

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