Will men ever realize that women are as visual as they are?

Will men ever realize that women are as visual as they are?
Will men ever realize that women are as visual as they are?
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11 d ago
I think that due female population being larger and, honestly, more attractive, we had to adapt to be attracted to other qualities as well. For the lack of options.
Truly beautiful males don't even realize how rare and special they are, they got granted one of the best, if not THE best, gift that life could give them.
10 d ago
The only difference is that our "vision" is wider then men's. We notice everything: mostly his fully body and the way he carries himself (how he walks, stands, sits, his hand gestures, his body movement, his voice, his face expressions, etc.). Those are all physical traits that women very much notice and that plays a huge role in their arousal.
It's so sad to see how little men actually know about women.

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  • I'm agree with you. From my experience women cares about fashion, has preferences in looks etc. too in addition to have preferences in personalities, the guy's mannerism and so on. Women says they doesn't care as much about looks more often than men because they're taught to say it.

    When I discuss celebrities crush with women most of them says they prefer Brad Pitt and Ryan Gosling over Michael Moore for instance. Women can get both physically and sexually attracted to men's look. They do fantasize about it too. But they're taught or adapted to like other traits too than looks. In addition it's an evolutionary advantage for both genders to like both looks and other traits. Looks symbolize good health and genes for a potential offspring, while other traits like intelligence, strength, kindness and so on may be important to make a potential family work.

    From both my and many women's experience there's more beautiful women than good looking men in this world, at least from our point of views, therefor it would make sense women sucks it up and choose an average to below looking man with a good personality if they doesn't want to be single. There's enough beautiful women for (almost) everyone; both men and women, but there's not enough handsome men for all straight women. There's even not enough for all of the top most beautiful women explaining why many women who's considered beautiful by the majority ends up with a man seen as unpleasant by most people.

    I've noticed how rare handsome men are. They're extremely rare, but not women. In an average nightclub 4 of 10 women are either cute or pretty, while there's less than 1 of 100 men who's between somewhat nice looking to handsome. I knows a very straight girl who struggles finding a handsome man since they're quite rare and she's a very visual person unable to adapt. She thinks there's many pretty ladies out there, so she would be content with it if she doesn't find her dream man.

    There's also disagreement on if women or men are the most pickiest one. That means women also are visual, not only men as people have different experiences.

    Some men would realize that women are visual, but many won't simply because of:
    1. They've never been a woman and therefor can't tell, but just assume based on their experiences and point of views.

    2. They wants to comfort themselves because many have realized most men looks bad while many women looks relatively good, so to not feel bad about themselves they claims women doesn't care.

    But a QUESTION: Why are there more attractive women than men out there?

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    • 5 d ago

      ''there's not enough handsome men for all straight women. There's even not enough for all of the top most beautiful ''
      Jeez why are you so shallow about your tastes? there's plenty of decent looking guys around but the question is why are you only attracted to the model type ones?

      '' women sucks it up and choose an average to below looking man with a good personality ''
      why are you not attracted to above average guys and only the top ones? men are attracted to all sorts.
      Especially if you are average yourself. why do you all think the only men worth even seeing are the very top ones?
      you forget that you are average yourselves.
      ''there's less than 1 of 100 men who's between somewhat nice looking to handsome.''
      Really? i knew you were shallow but seriously... thats bloody insane! why do you think that noone counts unless they look like a model or something.. guys are happy with average females, yet you think we are all garbage unless at the top. thats crazy and very depressing
      to think that the only thing a partner would value in you is your face you never chose, you just happened to be born with.. and that if you got with someone they were just settling for you because they couldnt get the model guy...
      You really hate all of us.. and the only ones you value its just because of their face.. unable to see the people behind our appearance... This is really suicide fuel here...

      ''They wants to comfort themselves because many have realized most men looks bad while many women looks relatively good, so to not feel bad about themselves they claims women doesn't care.''

      this sh! t is probably some of the most bleak stuff I've read.
      no, most men dont look bad. they just dont have model looks which is what you all seem to only care about.
      and no most females dont look good. its just socially acceptable for them to paint a new face on. You fakeup has made you so narcissistic that you literally for you are on par with all the regular guys and that your ACTUAL looks match

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    • 4 d ago

      men even if they take care of themself and do what they can still won't make them attractive enough for female standards. good skin etc isn't good enough alone. for men you have to have certain features which makeup can't change

    • 4 d ago

      ''beauty is in the eye of the beholder and to me a man has to look like a model or celebrity like to find him handsome.. you contradicted yourself.. obviously it isn't in the eye of the because you just said they have to be the best looking for yu to find them attractive
      '' it's not as difficult to find a cute woman as a handsome man anyway'' of course not because those are the only guys they are interested in!
      If you are average, like literal average not the ones you mentioned who are far above it then you dont have much change..
      you basically implied that the only ones who are good looking enough are the top percentage and think that even a common female can just put on makeup and someone go after only the top.
      Actual normal or average guys are invisible to you

  • Lol, that is horseshit!

    - Guys get boners and are completely seduced just by LOOKING alone, do girls get wet and are seduced just by seeing a guy (not touching him or anything, just seeing him)?

    - The overwhelming majority of men prefer to watch porn and can get off on nothing more than a still picture, whereas the overwhelming majority of women prefer to READ words off a screen. And the erotic fiction they read are centered about what the guy is DOING to the girl - not so much what he looks like. Things like raping her, beating her, etc, is the main focus of the descriptive language used compared to the amount dedicated to what the man looks like.

    - Lingerie shops exist ONLY for women, indicating that visual presentation is sought after more by men in their partners, not by women in theirs.

    - Strip clubs mostly house FEMALE strippers and not male ones.

    - Countless women say that they are willing to date a guy who doesn't look that good as long as he exudes a lot of confidence. When have you seen a guy make the same statement?

    It's pretty obvious as day that men are primarily the visual focused ones, not women. Saying otherwise is just nonsensical.

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    • 9 d ago

      I've talked to many women and what you're saying applies to many women, but not all. There's many exceptions.

      1. I know a very straight woman getting aroused by LOOKING only without any touch, smell etc. If the man is a 10/10 and celebrity standard, she will get aroused she says. But it's very rarely she sees a handsome man, so it happen rarely. It's probably less than 1 in 300 men she finds that handsome. The times she doesn't get aroused is when the man is average or ugly. Most doesn't look good, ha ha! Many straight women also gets aroused by looking at beautiful women and may even fantasize about them simply because of they're visual and nice looking men are rare in comparison.

      2. Women from my experience prefer both. Some women may watch porn; both videos and still pictures. There's a reason lesbian porn is very popular among young women. Look it up.

      3. The lingerie shops thing is true.

      4. It's because of there's more beautiful women than handsome men out there, so making these ones popular for women would be incredible difficult. It's a reason movie stars attracts women more than clubs. A movie star from a country can be shown in the whole world on the screen, while each local clubs needs a lot of male employees. It's difficult to find someone fitting the standards and wanting the job. It would probably be 1 in 1000 that would fit.

      5. Men doesn't need to make a such statement since they rarely face this "dilemma" and there's many cute girls out there. If pretty girls were as rare as handsome men, then you would hear it.

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    • 9 d ago

      Women dress up for men. Because we know that you are visual. Men don't dress up because they don't know that women are visual too, they think we don't care.

    • 9 d ago

      I knows about a straight girl who wished men dressed better, so good point little bird.

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  • Women are as visual as men, we just have a little advantage. A bigger peripheral vision.
    This allows us to sneak peak without being caught in the act.🤫 Don't tell anyone I shared that...

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  • I don’t know. I’m conflicted.

    Im the kid in school who had zero friends, everyone at school hated me, I stank, wore the same clothes to school every day. Got bullied daily.

    And yet, I found out years later after high school, that a few girls actually had crushes on me. Me, the smelly kid. The loser with not even one friend, who stinks like shit, and even his teachers join his classmates in bullying him. Maybe these girls just felt bad for me.

    Later on in life, I was still a loser. I’d go out, and cute girls would approach me all the time. Some would get mad. Cuz I was shy and had so much social anxiety. They’d think I was gay because I wasn’t like... doing whatever it is you do when a cute girl approaches you. I wasn’t being the player they wanted me to be.

    I have many stories of me rejecting girls. Out of pure fear and anxiety. My social skills were shot from a childhood of being alone. I was terrified of pretty girls for so long. And somehow I thought I was ugly. I blamed the fact I couldn’t get a girl on being ugly rather than I was literally rejecting them in fear every time.

    So yea. I dunno. Maybe there’s just a perk to being attractive. At this point I’ve like halfway internalized it. I still have trouble accepting that I’m good looking. But I think it’s just an advantage to look good. Like girls will let you slide on other areas if you look attractive. Just because, they wanna know what it’s like to be with someone who looks so good.

    But I still believe that women do not care about looks at all. And that all the players and pickup artists and alpha dudes and shit like that, who pick up chicks and fuck them like nothin, are teasing out the real truth to women’s attraction. And a woman won’t tell you how women are attracted cuz they don’t even know themselves.

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  • ''and, honestly, more attractive'' No, you really arnt. You just hide behind fake beauty and makeup. Honestly if you take off your face pain most of you look no better than average guys. you just think you get to put on fake beauty and then judge men for not being equal. You let that get to your heads.. So there it is fully admitting it. You think that putting on a fake mask to make yourselves look more attractive means you are too good for the male population apart form the very top ones.. its a joke. underneath all the fake your on level with average and ugly men.

    ''we had to adapt to be attracted to other qualities as well. For the lack of options'' LACK OF OPTIONS? there is basically the same amount of males as females and most men these days are desperate for a relationship or female attention. If you didn't consider the vast majority of men to be not good enough then you would have plenty of options. You have unlimited options because you can match with practically hundreds of guys and have all the options. mosr guys have practically none. its the bottom of the barrel or nothing. The problem with you lot is that you seem to think that you are so much better than you are. all going for the top 10% or so of guys even if you are average. If you actually cared about more than facial appearance then you would find plenty of good guys in that bottom 80% you dismiss.

    ''Truly beautiful males don't even realize how rare and special they are''
    Special how? you think that facial aesthetics are everything. They arnt. You are all so shallow. Having a certain face doesn't make you a better person. not that you care about the person behind the face.
    '' THE best, gift that life could give them.''
    No.. intelligenace, capability, health etc. are more important things. The only reason it would be considered the best is if they placed all their value on what others think of them. you only consider it the best because you prioritize model like facial features over everything.
    ''we had to adapt to be attracted to other qualities as well''
    Well if you wernt so obsessed with facial perfect you would feel the need to say that, You didn't 'have' to do anything. You could just be a normal person and settle for people in your league instead of thinking you all deserve the top model like guys. It's ridiculous.. THIS is why you can't find good guys. Because you think the vast majority arnt good enough because they dont have this stupid model face. If you have to ''adapt'' because you dont find regular guys attractive then you are defective as a gender.

    ''he only difference is that our "vision" is wider then men's.''
    No its not. Men are into all sorts. Even obese sloppy girls still always have male fans.
    What you're saying is you ''settle'' for other ''qualities'' such as a guy who provides or makes up for not being able to look the best. You overlook the fact he's not the best and begrudgingly use him as a fill in who you arnt happy with until your preferred choice comes along.
    you think regular ones arnt good enough so you find some other qualities to exploit..
    You will always be sallow and miserable. you are aware of your problem but choose to do nothing about it.
    you choose to waste your lives pursuing these selct few top attractive guys who have lots of options and mostly won't commit and end up old miserable and settling for someone who will support you and you bastard children to these short term fling men.
    ''It's so sad to see how little men actually know about women.''
    That i can agree with.. Its incredibly sad that most men still think that you arnt completely shallow and find the vast majority of men unattractive. Its real sad that these guys go years thinking they have a change and that females actually care who they are. that they havnt seen your true colours and dont know how shallow you really are.. but would you want them to? if they knew that you couldnt exploit them for money. Anyway some are seeing the truth from tinder stats

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  • I have been told many many many times through out life that they aren't. I kno that they are, but it's tough to remember that when we are told the opposite so frequently

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    • 11 d ago

      Because we've also been taught by society over and over again that looks shouldn't matter when choosing a man. Female sexuality has been so deeply suppressed over centuries, for the "greater purpose". We've been brain-washed. But biological instinct will ALWAYS trump over everything. And that's when it clashes with what we were taught. No wonder so many females are sexually fucked up.

    • 11 d ago

      Yeah, that and then the weird stuff that you all tell each other about what men are into.

  • No you guys are confused as fuck. I have a lot of women say you're bald and you have a big beard it's ugly and then they talk to me for a bit and then after i talk to them a bit they rub my head and pull on my beard and say wow you're so hot. My personality turned me from ugly to hot. Lmao. Or some girls straight up say im sexy while of course others say im ugly. Its hilarious how all over the place girls are.

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  • We know girls aren't blind. We just don't know what they think of what they see. With guys, we make it as obvious as the color of the sky. But girls seem to make a point out of not telling anyone what they like.

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    • 9 d ago

      I've talked to a lot of women and they do care about looks, but most are taught from they were little to not say it loud that they've preferences or cares about looks. Many women prefer a tall masculine looking man with moderately muscles, a defined jawline and some stubble. Many also likes short hair, when he dress nice and fashionable. In real life there's not easy to find handsome men, therefor women often ends up with average ones instead.

  • Most rich men would date a beautiful, nice and relatively poor women

    That doesn't apply in reverse..

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    • 10 d ago

      I've met several women who date a man that makes a lower income than them

    • 10 d ago

      Yes. Confirmation bias. You are forgetting the 90% that's wouldn'tdnt.

    • 10 d ago

      That has nothing to do with being visual or not. And most RICH women would actually date a poor guy, for your information. POOR women wouldn't, but then again POOR men also wouldn't date a poor women either; they wouldn't date anyone seriously.

  • This question contains so much truth in it! Women are equally visual, just more sneaky and discreet when looking! 😄

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    • 9 d ago

      Wow! You live and learn I never knew that I always thought it was a guy thing

  • Of course women are visual, but I do believe that women are more emotionally stimulated than men, and therefore this makes the unfortunate looking man with a great personality desirable to a lot of women.

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  • Lol. They won't. I admit I sneek a peek my bae's dick while he is asleep to check whether it's active or not. I can proudly say that I've never been caught by him.

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  • Men and women are simply not the same. Quit trying to make or think it so.

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    • 10 d ago

      On update...
      Well, your last sentence about how little men actually know about women, is absolutely the truth. And why we're here in the first place. The problem is that it is very difficult to get them to open their eyes and their mind without them first being completly broken down by some woman. They're just so sure about themselves. Silly boys.

      One of the primary failings for men and their love interests is that many never stop to realize the difference between types of love. There are all kinds, brotherly, maternal, romantic, etc. etc. So too many think their romantic lover is going to love them like their mother did - not ever going happen. And it creates confusion and internal strife with them, and confuses their romantic love interest. Like, "Where ya goin' with this dude? I'm not your mommy."

  • I'd like to believe it but if that's the case then I would know because girls seem to think all guys care about is the body but here it's what your talking about not a girls body.

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  • Do tell! Nice to hear, even for those of us you may not be lusting over...

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  • No, because you physically are NOT. Yes, you can be visual and have some visual fantasy but you are NOT completely motivated sexually by image like men are. It has been shown time and time again... you are driven by mental fantasy of love, emotion, sex, and romance. Visual drive is a subcategory.
    Men, on the other hand, are mainly visually stimulated, the other stuff is back burner shit compared to that.
    www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2739403/

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  • Will women ever realize that not all men are the same and MOST men are nothing like how women think they "All" are?

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  • I dont know why every man do not know this already. Just look around how women behave around hot guys.

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  • Women do excel at looking good. I can't be bothered. Not sure why that is.

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  • Plenty complain that all women care about is looks so I think they already know.

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    • 9 d ago

      I swear I never knew women were visual like us. You just taught me something

  • No, because you are not and science has proven this.

    We are evolved to be visual, quiet, and focus our listening because, out in the world where there are predators and prey, watching, listening, and being silent is how you avoid getting killed by predators and are able to make the kill of prey.

    Females are evolved differently. Their sense of smell is better than ours. They are evolved to listen more broadly while we listen with focus. (For instance, in a cacophony of multiple conversations, women get overwhelmed trying to listen to them all and figure them all out. We do not - we pick one conversation and listen to it while filtering out the other conversations as noise.)

    Anyway, women may have visual sexual triggers like we do, be we are much more visual. And, believe me, we notice "everything" too. Noticing everything is how you find patterns in prey and strengths in predators.

    It's so sad to see how little women actually know about men.

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    • 10 d ago

      So even if they think you smell horrible, and need a shower, you doubt that they would still look at you in your bike shorts, with your, package, presented?
      I actually know, from personal experience, that women are VERY visual!! When I am ever in any kind of 'relationship' she decides I need different clothes!!
      She wants me to dress in a way that appeals to her, when she shows me off, introducing me to her girlfriends, and if I look like a slob, it reflects badly, on her, and her girlfriends will mock her!!
      Women have fashion sense, and that is ALL VISUAL!
      I understand your 'sense of smell' thing, and the 'predator' thing, but it just isn't applicable here!!
      Women love their man dressed in the way that they like, and I just go along with just about anything!!
      Pardon me now, but we are going to bed, and she wants me to wear this soft lacy thing. . . JK!! But I would, for the right lady!! :)

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    • 9 d ago

      It’s odd women having better vision if men are meant to be more visual...

    • 8 d ago

      @VIVANT Women don't necessarily have better vision. They may have different vision. Our brains our wired to be able to focus our senses and eliminate noise. Women try to sense everything - and this can lead to an overwhelming of senses. It's amazing actually. I once saw this psychological experiment which illustrated this: A recording of multiple simultaneous conversations was played and each participant was asked to describe details of any conversations. The men were able to identify much more but primarily of a single conversation only. The women, by comparison, couldn't document so much because they were trying to extract information from all the conversations. I wouldn't be surprised if something like this is similar with vision between men and women.

  • Hoeish/promiscuos women may be as visual as a man and even act on it.

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  • Women it is what you say, for men it is what they see. Been that way 10,000 years , will be that way 10,000 years from now.

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  • We know. Its just some of us dont want to admit it as the reason we are sexless. Because women are visual just like guys.

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  • It's so sad to see how little you actually know about men and women.

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  • Who told you we don't know that? Will women ever realize it's not good to generalize men and underestimate our intelligence?

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  • No, because they aren't. So there's nothing to realize.

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  • Of cause men don't have the exclusive right to eye balling females, women do it too...

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  • I realize that you are as visual as me personally, why do you ask?

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  • I've had my ass checked out many a time by women. It's a good exercise to walk everywhere...

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  • I've had women comment on my ass, but I wonder what you mean by beautiful men.

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    • 11 d ago

      Beautiful, like really good looking. Brad pitt in meet Joe black or legends of the fall was a beautiful dude.

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    • 9 d ago

      @Pulimuli, I think you mean handsome.

    • 9 d ago

      @curiousnorway nah he wasn't just handsome like Jon Hamm, he was beautiful. Look at Alain Delon, another guy who is too good looking to be called handsome

  • Probably not, it's not as obviously expressed when women do it, so men tend to ignore it.

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  • Yes you ate visual but you are also much more picky and are more emotional as well.

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  • Well they aren't, for one.

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    • 11 d ago

      Ofc they are, why do you think they drool over really hot guys?

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    • 9 d ago

      @A factor in the reason why women consume less porn than men could be because most porn is geared towards a male audience.

      #DINGDING

    • 9 d ago

      @VIVANT And most porn is geared towards men because... anyone... anyone...

  • No, because we aren’t at visual as they are.

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  • What exactly are you asking?

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  • i now realize this, thank you for telling me

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  • We are? 😱

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  • men already know

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  • Yes visual to their dream lifestyle more like. Lol

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  • We already knew that.

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  • Women are not visual. That's a science fact.

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  • Trust me we know

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  • Well go ahead ladies check us out

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  • No I don’t beleive thay.

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  • Wait a minute.. Do women really Do this?

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  • Only to certain guys. Average dudes would totally check out average girls all day but it wouldn't be the same if it were flipped around. The woman expect more and believe they deserve better than average even if they're average themselves.

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    • 9 d ago

      There's many women in my country dating elderly overweight men the majority doesn't find particular good looking and not all of these men are rich either. Some are of the middle- or lower middle class. The women themselves tends to look cute when they're young, but some ages badly. The contrast is still there though.

  • Do you hate dark complexion Dominican? And love the white ones?

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  • I think men know. I think society just doesn't want it to be normalized the way it is for men. I mean, seriously, we (as a society) complain about topless women and yet topless men turn women on just as much if not more so than a topless woman turns on a man. The reason I'll say more so is because women are much more likely to ask for a shirtless picture of the guy she's texting than a dick pic.

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  • Women are NOT AS visual as men are, but, they can still be pretty visual

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    • 10 d ago

      Why won't you just listen to me. I know what im fucking talking about you turd

    • 10 d ago

      No you don't.

  • Of course women are visual. And of course you think 90% of men are ugly. But I also bet you can't stand the look of your own face without makeup.

    90% of women are just as ugly as 90% of men. It's just socially acceptable for women to cover it up

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    • 10 d ago

      @Mousssa I wouldn't go that far. I was just making the point that women realise how much better makeup makes them look. No need for personal insults.

  • Bullshit, 100% of women look like gremlins without makeup on

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  • there is no point in dating you woman
    it's all over the internet

    I am done dating
    never again

    and i will be honest
    I AM TO GOOD FOR MOST OF YOU WOMAN

    most of you do not know the word
    and will not follow the word

    so your life literally has no value
    but it is your choice

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    • 11 d ago

      ohh and it would not matter you will get tired of the hot guy
      and he will get old and boring so your words have no value

    • 11 d ago

      You don't really feel that way do ya?

    • 11 d ago

      @Soft4u

      I don't feel that way

      I KNOW THAT WAY
      I have seen it happen so many times
      and I have been part of it
      so guess what

      no I am not joking
      I AM TO GOOD FOR MOST OF YOU WOMAN
      the only woman even worth dating
      are the ones who follow the word

      the rest of you nope
      waste of time

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