If a guy didn’t find you attractive will he just have sex with you once?

Question

If you didn’t find a girl attractive will you just sleep with her once? Or get into a relationship with her and always sleep with her?

nightdrot · Accepted Answer

This is on a relative scale in a way. I have had sex with women I did not find attractive. I've even been in a relationship with a woman I did not find all that attractive.

The key is the range from attractive to unattractive to ugly. It is one part physical and one part personality. There was one gal, years ago, who I did not find ugly, but who did not turn me on all that much.

However, she had an absolutely sparkling personality. Funny, an infectious laugh, wide open and fun loving. It was hard not to be attracted to her in that sense.

Bottom line. Physical attractiveness is important. No doubt of it. However, a winning personality can, to a great extent, outweigh the purely physical. The right mix being hard to gauge and relative in a lot of ways.

Oh, by the way, that funny fun loving gal? Some of the most unbridled hottest sex I've ever had.

Kkaos · Accepted Answer

Definitely not a relationship. That's far too much work for someone you're not even attracted to. Would hookup though if she was down for that kind of thing.

_Tou24che_l · Accepted Answer

Despite my gut feeling, I'm going to say yes. Guys can like a girl's personality or just use her that one time for pleasure. Unattractive can also mean many things------> not so attractive facial features but 'banging body', banging body cute face but an ugly personality that will turn a guy off, cute in an innocent way that will make a bad boy turn away, etc. It all depends on subjectiveness from someone's POV and don't forget, no matter what, 'unattractive people' will always be attractive to someone else. For, just because someone is unattractive to someone, doesn't mean everyone will find that person unattractive

pineappleshortcare · Accepted Answer

I’ve found people have individual thresholds on this one. I have both guy and gal friends that will, but most don’t.

Effably · Answer

I don't believe I'd sleep with her at all. If I sleep with her she's attractive to me.

killmejerusalem · Answer

I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't in a relationship with in the first place

slatyb · Answer

I wouldn't have sex with her at all. I'm not desperate enough to pretend affection just to get laid. That's cruel. "A thief, he will rob you, and take what you have / But a false-hearted lover will lead you to your grave."

Haelaeix123 · Answer

If I didn't find her attractive but liked her personality then I'd likely make a friend of her and never sleep with her.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Depends where i was in life. If i just wanted a fuckbuddy, but she wasnr really my taste i'd probably still go there, but i'd be clear that it was just a casual thing