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If that woman is a relative or platonic friend and his wife or girlfriend doesn't mind, then I think that would be OK. If he has romantic interest in her or she has romantic interest in him, then that sounds like it could be trouble, but otherwise it could be fine.Are you the woman that's been invited? If so, what is your relationship with him? How long have you known him? Do you know his wife/girlfriend? Does she know he's invited you?
This guy says he's single and that he takes care of his terminally ill mom, who lives with him. As to wether or not he actually has a wife or a girlfriend, I'm not sure. All I know is that we text each other sometimes and he has invited me over to his house a few times and each time, it was at night and we hung out in his basement. What I'm trying to find out is do married men ever invite other women over to their house at night to hook up in the basement while their wives are asleep or if it could be true that this guy really does have his sick mom living with him and just hangs out with me in the basement to avoid disturbing his mom?
That would be pretty bold to hook up with someone in the basement while his wife or girlfriend was sleeping upstairs. I suppose there are probably some guys that might try something like that, but I doubt that most would.Based on the information you've provided my guess is that there's a good chance he's telling you the truth. I do think it's a little odd though that he only meets you late in the evening like that. And then does he want you to leave and not stay overnight? Have you ever asked if you could go earlier or stay until morning? Have you ever asked about meeting his mom? If not, it might be interesting to do that. Perhaps you could tell something from how he reacts to those questions.Do you live in the United States? If so, I think the names of property owners are public information and often available online, so perhaps you could check the property records for the county where the house is to see who the owner is. If it's his mother, then that would seem to support what he's telling you. If it's him jointly with a woman that's not his mother, then that might be a bad sign.
Well, I checked online and it appears that he actually does live with his mom.
Well that's good then that he's been telling you the truth. I think it's a little odd that he only has you over late in the evening and you haven't met his mom if she lives there, but maybe she's a "no sex before marriage" type person and he doesn't want to upset her or something like that.
It's possible. and it's probable that he's scheming.
Is it possible? yesIs it normal? noIs he cheating? probably
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