According to a study, they found out that women are more likely to forgive a man who cheated on them, but a man was more likely to forgive emotional cheating that a women was. The idea for why is that if a women has sex with someone else, the guy doesn't know if it will be his kid, while a women will obviously know that it is her kid. Women on the other had, are less likely to forgive emotional cheating because it increases the chance of the guy leaving her and not helping raise a kid. These feelings are more subconscious, as most people when cheated on don't think of it that way, and is a factor whether or not a kid is actually involved.
You hit it right on the head with this statement.. I agree 100 percent with you on that..
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And maybe stop reading magazines and watching shows that CONSTANTLY tell you that you're the victim, that all evil in this world comes from men, never from women, that you can't do anything wrong, that all your feelings are good and precious the way they are, that you simply deserve stuff just for existing, and stop patting your own backs with your girlfriends and telling each other how amazing you are, and how everything is always a guy's fault.Maybe THEN guys can start seeing you for more than the sex you have to offer.
I left my fiancé of 5 years hoping he would change and he didn’t. I was so good to him. I asked why cheat and he said when I was always so busy working he was bored and had to entertain him self. He slept around with many women but didn’t want me to leave him, I stayed all those years hoping he would change and I loved him still care for him. It’s only been a few months since our break up but it’s something his mom has told me. He’s always been that way. Every good women he’s had in his life always cheat and fuck them over. I was his second fiancé. Plus he has a really bad drinking problem. I don’t think he will ever change. It sad and he did hurt be in a very hurtful way. It’s hard for me each day that goes by.
I AM SO SORRY YOU WENT THROUGH THIS, I KNOW YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT MAN, AND BE HAPPILY MARRIED!!!❤️❤️❤️
I gave up on love!! But thank you. I’m just focusing on myself for now and healing. I’m broken in every way. I never expected him to hurt me in the way that he did. Especially moving me to a new state while he moved there first while he was cheating on me with his neighbor for 8 months and other girls on the side. Sure tells you the asshole cunt that he is and I honesty and pray that he will get his karma for all the hurt he caused me. I was so damn good to him and he kept taking me for granted. Never ever did I disrespected him why? Because I was madly in love with him.
Not true. Some people just want the perks of having two people they can sleep with or get attention from
BS. Some people have a perfectly good relationship with someone who loves them a lot and if something is still missing then you COMMUNICATE. If you aren't capable of doing so then stay single. If something missing is enough for you to bring so much emotional damage and hurt to a person you claim to love then you posess no empathy.Most people who cheat do it because they get a thrill out of it. They'd even cheat with literally anyone because it gives them a rush to get away with it each time. They're messed up people. Either that or they're so insecure and empty inside that they constantly have to spread their legs to people to feel like they're good enough.
Would you mind elaborating on that please? I was always under the impression women relate sex with love but men do not?
Bullshit. You calling men stupid. A man can control themself
@shinka1y234 I said "Some" as in men who lack self-control. Many of them are intelligent, its just a matter of self-control. Something which many people lack nowadays.
And what's if husband or guy doesn't allow you to break up or divorce?
What do you mean? He can't do that?
In case if the woman has kids and she feels insecure but not happy with the husband?
You can say not mentally ready to fight or flight?
They're um... still human?
Still no reason to cheat. Your dad should man up and break up with your mother
Same for women
@shinka1y234 Of course. The point of my comment was that someone who cheats is not completely fulfilled in the relationship. Something is missing; some need is going unmet. Otherwise they would not cheat.
@Cocacolaaddict It's not OK to cheat in most cases.
@Cocacolaaddict That's false
@Cocacolaaddict What about them? Do you have any?
Every desire and need cannot be met by one person. Simply because your SO can't meet all your emotional and sexual needs is not a reason to cheat on them. Adults can usually find other outlets to satisfy themselves. If someone DENIES someone else sex, that's a serious issue. But if someone had several years to learn about the other person before marriage or a longterm committment, everyone went into the relationship with eyes open. I don't know why someone would stay in a relationship with serious sexual and emotional issues... It seems lazy on both people's parts.
@Screenwriter I was not justifying cheating, just pointing out why it happens. And I agree with most of what you said here. The only part I take issue with is your comment that adults can usually find other outlets to satisfy themselves. I think that comment is a bit naive if you think that will somehow make up for someone being sexually unsatisfied in a relationship. There is no substitute for good sex in a healthy relationship, and no excuse for it.
But why cheat? Why not move on? Seems like it compromises the relationship and yourself.
@Screenwriter Again, I was not justifying cheating. The reasons I gave were the reasons why many people DO cheat, not why the SHOULD cheat.But I also want to reiterate that I don't agree with your attitude about not trying to meet all your partner's emotional and sexual needs and desires. It sounds to me like you think that's not possible and you should just expect your partner to find other outlets to satisfy himself. I think that attitude right there is a significant contributor to a lot of cases of cheating (again, not saying it SHOULD be, but it IS).I see it very differently, and thankfully so does my partner. I will do anything to satisfy any sexual need / desire she has and I work very hard to do everything I can to make sure she is satisfied. She does the same for me, and I can tell you that I KNOW I am a very lucky man and that I would be a fool to cheat on this wonderful girl because I doubt I would find another who would do for me what she does. I think / hope she feels the same about me, and I'm confident I'm doing everything in my power to ensure she does.That is the attitude that I believe is missing in many couples today, which is sad. Does your partner feel that way about you?
I believe you should try to satisfy your partner's needs as best you can. That is part of being partners. What I'm saying is sometimes you cannot meet the needs. It might be due to illness or disability. Then you have to work something out.
@Screenwriter OK, I'll agree with that. Unfortunately a lot of women don't see it that way, and I thought you were one of them. My bad.