He asked me on a second date, but didn't follow through. Why?

Question

I met this guy online, we went on a date. We had fun and even on the date he mentioned that we should meet again. After this, he texted me every night and we chatted. Last Friday, he texted that we should meet again next week. It was late at night, so I just said that "Monday could work well, we should talk about this later" To which he said "sure". Interestingly, it's Tuesday already and he hasn't contacted me at all for 2 days, which is very weird. He has been consistent by texting me every day and emphasised that he likes me. What went wrong?

Answer 1

Martyist

Xper 1

I am 1 exper your 1 exper://////
we cannot communicate here.
Tell another account happens on the fake account, let's talk from kik messenger on instagram
Please
I would like to chat with you

italionagirl321

8 mo
ok what's your kik?
Martyist

8 mo
Meet41
Martyist

8 mo
add me message
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Martyist

8 mo
Hey? Add me

Answer 2

italionagirl321

ok what's your kik?

Answer 3

Martyist

Meet41

Answer 4

Martyist

add me message

Answer 5

Martyist

Hey? Add me

Answer 6

akakiran

Xper 2

Seems like he is freaking out and might be still or simply he might be busy

italionagirl321

9 mo
Why would he be freaking out? We have already met so there's no fear. It's a second date.
akakiran

9 mo
I know sometimes men like me keep conversation on and u how no idea how much we retype thinking what to type if you are still interested just ping him up asking when he could be available next if he doesn't respond for a while then might be he moved on

Answer 7

italionagirl321

Why would he be freaking out? We have already met so there's no fear. It's a second date.

Answer 8

akakiran

I know sometimes men like me keep conversation on and u how no idea how much we retype thinking what to type if you are still interested just ping him up asking when he could be available next if he doesn't respond for a while then might be he moved on

Answer 9

AzureGirl | 871 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Just because he stopped messaging you for two days doesn’t mean things automatically went wrong. He could have had things come up, got busy, forgot etc. Have you tried messaging him at all?

Answer 10

18withnoexperience

Xper 1

If you rule out the possibility of him being a catfisher then there's probably something going on with him maybe his personal life.

Answer 11

outside_Toronto

Master

Have you contacted him in the past 2 days?

italionagirl321

9 mo
No I haven't, because I don't text much and work til ate. I like talking face to face. But always when he'd text me, I'd continue the convo and ask him stuff etc. so I don't think he thinks I'm not interested. Plus I suggested a day to meet so I don't see the problem here.
outside_Toronto

9 mo
The problem is you're sitting there waiting and he's most likely doing the same
italionagirl321

9 mo
Well he has always been the one who liked to initiate contact and talk first, so I didn't even think about the possibility that he would leave this second date hanging. He's a very social guy and knows what to do so I'm confused. If a guy likes me, he texts me.
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outside_Toronto

9 mo
Apparently not
italionagirl321

9 mo
Well, his loss then.

Answer 12

italionagirl321

No I haven't, because I don't text much and work til ate. I like talking face to face. But always when he'd text me, I'd continue the convo and ask him stuff etc. so I don't think he thinks I'm not interested. Plus I suggested a day to meet so I don't see the problem here.

Answer 13

outside_Toronto

The problem is you're sitting there waiting and he's most likely doing the same

Answer 14

italionagirl321

Well he has always been the one who liked to initiate contact and talk first, so I didn't even think about the possibility that he would leave this second date hanging. He's a very social guy and knows what to do so I'm confused. If a guy likes me, he texts me.