Am I the only one who feels like this?

- I've never met anyone who feels that way. I always assumed it was a sign that they liked you.Is this still revelant?
Being popular doesn't mean he's confident I do see where your coming from that he isn't a shy person so why wouldn't he just tell you, it does make him liking all your photos seem kind of weird.
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Yeah but he has signaled some interest in person but I just don’t feel he’s mature enough. (Dating) he has had girlfriend that looks like models and I’m very average looking not beautiful
We’re just different. He’s in the crowd and I’m not
This was a while ago but it still lingers. We were 21 now we’re 22/23 - Show All Show Less
So are you saying you feel like your not in his league and he's just looking for a hook up, or he's lowering his standards?
I can see what you mean, but dont be so hard on yourself, maybe he legitimately is I terested.For your specific scenario that may be the best option. Just dont think of yourself as second best.
- Where did you get these ideas? Sounds to me like you just don't want relationship.Is this still revelant?
No, you aren't understanding my posts. My main issue with social media is that it gets treated with equal value to real life. (mostly by girls)
So let me ask you, if you think that guys liking your photos means they automatically devalue you as woman then you why do you put them on there? A test?
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"I'm not testing anyone"
"but I am testing his interest in me by pretending not to like him"
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Do you girls understand how ridiculous you sound sometimes?
Your last line was what I was getting at. Why girls do what you are doing I'll never know. It NEVER works, GAMES don't work. All you're doing by ignoring him is showing that you aren't interested.
He's not just going to wake up one day and say oh wow she's really cool! she been ignoring me, but I'm going to go talk to her! That's not how it works.Gee do you blame him? You don't have to test anyone. You aren't getting it, at all.
You told him to fuck off for following your friend on YouTube? Wow, you are very immature, even for your age. You've done everything you can do to show him that you don't like him, yet you don't understand why he doesn't like you.
What you're doing isn't working and it won't work. You should consider a more mature approach not centered on social media. But I know you won't.- Asker+1 y
Yeah I deserve it and I agree that it was very immature and I regret it very much. I was also jealous of my “so called “ friend because she was fake but I also said something to her. I’m kind of in a rut because I couldn’t handle my insecurities and felt like he played me or something. I just now feel that I’m going to be an enemy. I regret it , I learned from it but I still feel stupid that I did it
Your last sentence shows you really need to work on your insecurities before you get into a relationship. Guys don't like insecurity, just as girls don't care for it in guys.
Try to start by not valuing yourself through social media. I get it, I know that's what you young people do, that's that's how you communicate and all that, but it's a false reality, it's not real.- Asker+1 y
Yeah I’m working on it and doing better after the situation but now I feel bad. She’s trying to fight me and she insulted me called me bitch etc and said that I was invisible/ a nobody. Which she’s right. And he didn’t say anything because I blocked him from replying back but he didn’t reach out in which he shouldn’t have. I don't know how to fix the situation without making it worse
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02- He might want you to think he's interested and see how it plays out.React
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Lol he’s had plenty of girlfriends and they all look like models. I think he’s just playing with me and maybe just wants a reaction because I don’t show him attention.
It’s nice that he likes my pictures on Instagram of things that I’m proud of like my photography etc but he could just tell me
- That’s the wrong way to look at the world. You’re attempting to read his mind. and you can’t read minds.React
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It is about your question. You claim he’s following you and you have nothing to offer, I’m asking if you have something to offer. If you had a lot to offer, then it’s not surprising that guys would be interested in you. But since you are dodging the question it sounds like you don’t think you have a lot to offer.
See that’s the thing. I ask how I want to ask. You are having a hard time answering so you try to feign offense at how I asked the question.
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That’s cool. Just don’t expect a reply next time
I do have a lot going for myself. I’m in school and I have a lot of hobbies and interest but he doesn’t know any of that about me. I post a little photography , some food I like to cook but there’s more to me then that. He honestly doesn’t seem like the type of person to like stuff like that and my selfies. We’re just totally opposite and his girlfriends all look like models. I just didn’t feel him doing that was genuine interest but he did show some interest when I saw him and I remember when I saw him (he hugs everyone including me) but he gave me a hug and he pressed his head against mine and he lingered and gave a subtle smile.
Probably a player So if you show yourself on your social media that you are a photographer, an asipiring cook, and your hobbies and interests, maybe he sees more in you because you are more than just a hole. Which is my point.
So you’re back where you started.
Real talk. If you’re 18-24 as your anonymous profile indicates, you are as hot as you will ever be, and have the most power in a relationship as you will ever have. So stop putting up with bullshit and start taking control while you still have the power.
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