Why do white guys always say “You’re hot for a black girl?”?

[horsenrhinounicorn]

It’s a awkwardness of differences they aren’t accustomed to. You need to speak up. The reality is you have more melanin in your skin less likely to be burned by the sun and the more pale pink skin does better in the winter. Both are humans with the same organs and bones per gender role. The reality is everyone has their own unique personality raised by the culture of family not country or color. Never judge a book by its cover and write a review. Understand the whole book and then you get a more accurate understanding. That’s the issue with being graded on a color curve. If the majority of the school is one color the 1 person who is a different color goes above a beyond the color curve of the rest of the school. You will probably end up getting more dates than the rest because you have something no one else has that stands out. People often judge by how things look on the outside, but the real you comes from the inside. You are one who can make a difference in how people think and act by what they see at first sight. Every time you face people of differences you got to say peaceful words that make a difference in how they think when someone looks different than there are accustomed to.

[SirRexington]

I don't know how common it is for people to say. Saying out loud in particular to someone seems even less likely especially since saying that could lead you in cuffs or worse, in a bodybag. White people are extra careful to say anything about black people today or else face severe consequences.

Me personally, I've said it to my friends and my mom in scenarios where attraction to someone had come up. For instance, it is insanely rare for me as an individual straight man to find a black girl attractive. They just aren't most of the time. But I would not say it to them because 1: that's not appropriate and 2: black girls are loud and aggressive where im from and I don't feel like dying.

[Daniela1982]

Because they are all trying to butter you up.

[dthomas89]

I hate that

cause then it makes it sound like ALL black women are ugly

It's like someone saying "a 50 year old is STILL hot"

The keyword being still

as if all 50 year olds, are now ugly just cause theyr'e 50

or like trump and the central park 5

dont know what im talking about, look it up

[winterfox10]

I think every attractive Asian, Indian, Arab, and Black girl hears this from White guys. I think it's just a thoughtless comment; it's definitely not meant to be anything offensive. People just say it without thinking.

[chadpattan]

Well, consider the inspiration:https://www.youtube.com/embed/AltMeuPkWRs

[simplelikeme]

I don't think that they mean it in a bad way. They are probably stunned by how gorgeous you are and don't know what else to say. I have seen gorgeous African American women and not thinking I have said the same thing, but not in a bad way. I'm far from racist, but sometimes you just drop jaw and forget what to say :-)

[MannMitAntworten]

Probably for the same reason a black lady would say, “You’re hot for a white guy.” Which I have had said to me by three different black women.

[HJAHFA]

it means he's racist and thinks the majority of black girls are ugly, or less worthy than white girls.

im white and never think that way... if i see a hot black girl.. i jus think mmmm she's hot... not "hot for a black girl"
wtf lol

[Browneye57]

Cuz they're racists. Aren't all white people racists?

[Thatsamazing]

Because they (the ones that say that, at least-- I sure don't say it) are fucking stupid. If you hadn't discovered by now, lots and lots of people are fucking stupid. Donald Trump is President. I mean what more do you need to know.

[Anonymous]

Well what did ya expect? Most American white guys on average tend to be very racist in general. Why do you think they say they wouldn't date a white women who previously date a black guy?

[sersss]

bunch of racists if you ask me... are you hot?; )))

[MackToday]

Because black girls aren't white and white men evolved to be attracted to their own. It's a compliment if a black woman is attractive enough to seem so to a race so different to her own.

[Plitty-Tank]

Because he normally feels black women are not supposed to be as attractive as white women.

[MrSlim]

WTF? You have people actually say this to you? Maybe find some better friends?

[KaydenChrist]

Maybe its not intentional. Maybe they just put their foot in their mouth. Or maybe they don't come across your race much or never considered dating a black girl. Who knows

[Anonymous]

Well it is a compliment in spite of whatever constraints put on it.

But yeah, basically, black women are on average a little less attractive that other racial groups. Them's the breaks.

[bangyourhead]

Because a lot of black girls aren’t attractive. So you’re better than most.

[wittymilf]

They never say that to me 🤔

[Hendrik4044]

Probably because he thinks you're hot

[Anonymous]

Because most black girls aren't "hot"