Is it possible that he unfollowed me by accident?

[Anonymous]

He was on a trip. We heard each other, He told me when he was coming, I didn't ask to see him.
Yesterday, he post the status "Save Feelings for Someone Who Care".
He unffolow me today. I sent him a message why he unfollow me, he said by accident. But it's not accidentally for sure. He asked me when we would see each other.

Updates:

[opnbuk59]

You need more ban a month apart to search your heart this guy is looking for clarity in your relationship wondering if are you a couple or aren't you. for a man it simplifies things To know where oh stand if you are a romantic couple he might want to refocus his thoughts about say having a family and steer his life that way.. But to be completely honest why don't the two of you stop acting like 1st graders in love sit down over a romantic dinner and have a heart to heart talk. let it out your emotion clarify the relationship ok just talk it out I believe he wants to know where your heart is before he stay or go. That's a song isn't it should I stay or should I go darling you got to. Let me know da da da da da da da dot. So let him know ok should I stay or should I go you're adults now act like it and no more sex 'til you're married ok

[tony1970]

Sounds to me like a game he's playing. Its basicly like this say i hug you once everyday for years one hug a day no big deal its a hug nothing special then i take that away no explanation just take it away a couple days pass and in your head ur thinking what the hell i need my hug wanting it more its a form of control if he's still in contact with you he's got something on the side and is showing others how he's got you if he is i would do the same dump him move on there is better out there trust me

[KitKnickKat]

Doubt it was an accident hun. My boyfriend and I got into a fight a long time ago and he unfollowed me because he was angry. I laughed because it was immature! But he hasn’t done it again. I take it the two of you aren’t dating, or haven’t been together long? If not, then I would probably drop him. If you haven’t figured him out entirely yet, who knows what he will do during a bigger argument.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

It doesn't sound like it. From what I can tell, he went on this trip and wanted to meet you, you didn't ask to meet. Of course, him not being in his home turf is not going to ask. So you probably hurt his feelings and this is how he responded. If you are only after the follows, just drop it and let it go. If you want to meet him, then do it.

[razelove]

y'all are both playing games, and they don't even sound fun like twister or scrabble, but lame like solitaire. If you're going to play games with another person, at least make it amusing, have sex, and when he finishes be like wait, what day is it? Shit, I forgot to take the pill.

Or a game I used to play was bark doggie, bark for your treat or get punished. Some bad girls get left on side the road, poor things, or the rewards is putting a choke chain on them and leading them around the mall by their favorite stores.

Your games just sound boring. Break up, put on some clown make-up during blowjobs, something, someone has to be the milton bradley in this relationship.

[ScottStevens]

To follow or not follow, in social media this seems to be the only message that matters! So I am convinced you two are trying to figure each other out through social media and not by having meaningful direct conversations.

If you are ever going to be as close as it appears both of you want to be, you are going to have to cut to the chase and have a face to face meeting where you lay your feelings out for each other to see them. The fact that both of you have held on to some kind of hope there could actually be a thoughtful relationship is proof positive that you need to sort this out together. Maybe the meeting will end with a friendly smile and ok this could never work, but at least that would be closer and both of you could move on. I see smoking ambers that refuse to go out! Where there is smoke, there is fire!

[hotbaeforyou]

People don't just unfollow someone on accident. And if it did happen, he'd have messaged you immediately to apologize and friend you again. Maybe there's another woman? That's happened to my guy friends. Their girlfriends unfollowed me for them and they didn't even know.

[vic10]

I guess, he feels that you don't care about him and he may have thought that posting a status about that indirectly and then unfollow you will get him your attention.
It surely doesn't seem like an accident.
I think he likes you and he wants you to care about him a little or show him some affection.
Although it looks like he is an attention seeker, he seems to be a nice guy.
I think a simple talk with him will clear you out everything.

[jason0559]

Evrything happens for a reason wether it's good or bad
He unfollow u bcoz he starts loosing intrest in you
The line he written on his status is for somone else
Ask him and confront him what in his mind..
When he said the last line u have to ask to him did he really
Mean it or he is just wasting ur time...
It's ur time too move on don't give importance to the people who don't deserve

[Maraneva]

The whole situation seems plenty volatile now. Stay back, give some space and room for thinking. Did he follow you back? If not, red flag. Go back to friendzone

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm. I'm not sure about your particular case. But I have unfollowed people by accident before. Sometimes when you have a slow internet connection your screen gets stuck on the wrong page, so the button you actually click isn't the button you thought you clicked and the one you were trying to click. This is a real thing. It's very frustrating.

[dwcl99]

He seems to have trouble talking to you directly and is doing all of these round-about, sneaky ways of communicating with you. Unless he changes how he communicates with you, I don't think that it will develop into a healthy relationship.

[koosa1999]

Bullshit, he is playing with your emotions, he unfollowed you on purpose, if you continue down this road you are only going to increase the pain your going to feel this guy is a ass why do you keep holding on?

[spartan55]

I have no idea what the first paragraph means. I can't figure out how it connects to the rest of your post either. More details, more concise writing would help.

[Itsmeeeee77]

Humana what is that you want miss? First you need to understand yourself to go for analysis of this guy. The guy is gud and is totally into u. But ur feelings have been not reciprocated.

[JackieJaii]

He sounds childish 🤔 I don't know about this guy. Does he only ask to you if you guys are gonna have sex? It's a few steps to unfollow someone in any social platform so he knew what he was doing. You might not wanna waste your time with him

[proNutro]

Like someone else said, just throw him away. All I get from what you said is red flags. That’s just me though.

[Suchismita]

I think you are an overthinker.!
Let it be.
Go with the flow
If he unfollowed you intentionally, let it be
If he unfollowed you by accident, let it be

[Surely]

Are you really sure you want to keep spending time with this guy?
How long has it been since you two were together?
He sounds horny for your body.

[cicchis0]

Sounds like he was upset with you. You need to talk to him if you want to know for sure and it sounds like you both need to work on communicating better.

[roybengali]

I think you should talk to him, now a days relation are ruined more by technology then people. I dont think its right to judge without clarity, talk understand and take decision.

All social media platform are for creating confusion...

[cheapshotbob]

he is playing with your feelings stop getting around him

[F-eight]

Honestly, just talk to him. You'll be clear in terms of a lot of things if you just communicate with him about everything. Be honest with him and tell him how you feel. That'll help you.

[Playero_Culebra]

You sure your not dating a female. I'm sorry I'm a dude either be honest and say we're done or we still toghter, none of this little kid bullshit. im a grown ass man